well i like this girl, but she is like playing mind games with me. one day she loves me the next she hates me. i haven't spoken to her much, but she gives me looks. last year i asked her out, she said no, but i still like her, and btw her name is beth. next there is the other girl named lucy, i like her, but i think she's only likes me because of my money, but im not really sure. and i like her too. next there is this other girl named ashley, i known her a long time, but she recently broke up with her bf, and i want to ask her out, but i think she needs space. so what should i do? who should i try and date? im confused, my heart doesn't tell me, same with my mind. help me please! who should i go and date ashley? beth? lucy? who? and ashley has been giving me looks too, but its a good look. but i still go feelings for beth, and i like lucy. im so confused! help me!
2007-03-22 14:52:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tony just relax and pick the one you have the most fun with.
2007-03-22 14:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, give me a break! How old are you? Listen, the girl you are going to date right now is definitely not going to be the one you marry one day. How I know? cos it's not possible to love two people at the same time. So you got to take what you can get now and not give it a second thought...there'll be plenty of time for serious things later.
To answer your question: I would go with Ashley. You've known her for the longest, she seems like a reasonable person, if you want a serious relationship, but if you want something casual I would go with Lucy cos Beth (I know the type) you will not win over no matter what you do. You will always be in a limbo, wondering what will come next and it doesn't sound like you want that. Hope this helps! Good luck and remember it's all about making yourself happy!
2007-03-22 15:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok ok. First off, you have two many interests. There is no rule that says you HAVE to date someone. You can come off being desperate if you switch back and forth between girls. What you need to do is try and figure out which you might like the most. But always keep your options open. Once you have figured out which one you are most interested in then talk to her and see if she does indeed like you back. If you are unsure about whether or not she does like you then try and get a feel about the next girl.
I am pretty sure in a couple of days this puppy love stage will slow down and you will see clear again. But until then try and just figure out which girl you have the most interest in.
Good luck! I once had several guys I liked at the same time and I went a completly different route. I choose somebody I didn't even know I liked. We ended up dating for almost a year. It was great.
Hope everything works out for you.
2007-03-22 15:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by JennTarbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need someone in your life that places you on an emotional roll-a-coster, let Beth go. Neither do you need someone in your life that is only interested in money, let Lucy go too. You and Ashley could start out being friends and maybe end up more than friends, but even if you don't a good friend is always good to have. If I must choose one, it would be Ashley.
2007-03-22 14:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beth and Lucy sound like real idiots. They're using you. Why would you want to date either of them? That clears up the question of those two.
As for Ashley, maybe you should talk to her a bit before you assume she needs space. If it turns out she doesn't want to date you, keep looking. There is an outside chance that not a single one of the mentioned girls is the right girl for you.
2007-03-22 14:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by THUB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deff not beth, she sounds like the kinda person you dont wanna date, emotional, and her feelings will be changing constintly, one day she will absolutely love u and the next ur her worst enemy. not lucy b/c she likes you for ur money, you want someone who likes you for YOU! and this ashley girl, well if she just broke up with her boyfriend shes probobly depressed, give her space, but let her know that your there if she needs anything. that means alot to a girl. (i would know :)) so ya) anyways slowly move into something with ashley.. thats what i say
2007-03-22 15:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ra Cha Cha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well beth is playing mind games, lucy likes you for your money. wow, if you like being used and play games go for one of them. I think ashley seems more like a person that you should be looking into. why don't you ask her if she would like to get together to go to the movies, or out to eat. good luck.
2007-03-22 14:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl who wants your money-no, no, and NO!
she's using you, and usually your conscience is right.
with Beth, umm. she kind of seems like someone who wouldn't last in a relationship, seeing as her love-hate friendship with you. don't date her.
date Ashley. give her a few weeks to a month, and then ask her out. make sure she's fully ready to start dating, and that you aren't just the 'rebounder.' being a rebound isn't fun=[
2007-03-22 14:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ellers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take about 3 weeks to let one of them come after you. You're going about this the wrong way. Only one person will make you happy and you're trying to take out the entire neighborhood at one time. They know you're after them. You have to kick back and see if they return their interest. All the time you're spending running around brain frying over these girls is time and energy you could be spending on other things. The minute you stop trying is always the minute what you've been wanting the most walks right up to your face.
2007-03-22 15:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by anubisy2k2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. well since you are single and assuming that these girls are single, you can ask them all out on a date...of course, at different times. See who will say yes or no, that will eliminate some of the stress, 2nd when you are on your dates, see who you have more fun with. To be honest, when you are single and dating around, it's not a crime or bad to date other people, once you find one of the girls that you really like, then ask to be in a realtionship and you will be fine! :)
2007-03-22 14:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sharan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you really have to focus on your heart. Listen and do what your heart tells you. And I know that you said you don't know what your heart tells you, but I know there's an answer. (oh if dis isnt working out i think you should try all of them. im recommending Beth.)
2007-03-22 15:00:40 · answer #11 · answered by miley_hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋