There is a song that I love so much but whenever I hear it, but it reminds me of something I don't want to think about. But I really love the song, I want to listen to it but it brings me back the bad memories. How to deal?
2007-03-22 14:51:42 · 21 answers · asked by Monique 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Make new memories to it................
2007-03-22 14:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just listen to it a lot. Eventually, you will have heard it so much you'll not have time to think of the bad memories. Then, don't listen to it again for like three weeks. The bad memories will be gone and you'll be happy to hear it again.
2007-03-22 21:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is an old question and easy to solve....
You see.....songs are like sponges that soak up the times when you heard them. The idea is to ring out the sponge to get the old memories out, then soak new good memories in.
Just listen to the song doing something or being with someone you like and it will soak up new memories. it takes time but it works.
2007-03-22 21:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by ipolkadot 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...ya know, when i have bad memories , especially the type that a 'good song' brings, up, i usually have to deal with the pain, before i can move on (usually it's been to greener pastures)...listening to it hurts, a lot, at first...but time will heal the pain, and in a lot less time than you would think..good luck, sweetie...
2007-03-22 21:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by katytex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to it for a long time. Resist. Then when quite a bit of time has passed, at least 4 months, listen to it again. It'll be better. I've had to do that with "Yesterday", the old Beatles song, because it makes me think of my ex-husband and is very sad for me. I can't listen to it for a long time, even though it's a favorite of mine.
2007-03-22 21:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love that song, try to think of the good memories, not only the bad.
Good Luck.
2007-03-22 21:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a new song that you love or make new memories to the song you already love
2007-03-22 21:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Peachy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to it more often and try to attach it to new memories or feelings.
Happens to me too. Good luck.
2007-03-22 21:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do something good or have some sweet memont when u listening to this song...
then u will have good song, good memories, hehe
2007-03-22 21:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until the bad feelings go away, you need to find other music to listen to
2007-03-22 21:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with revisiting bad memories sometimes, they remind you how far you have come or how far you still need to go.
2007-03-22 21:58:37 · answer #11 · answered by LesHug 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋