I do a lot of masturbation, and I have sex with boys a lot. I Have realy serrious makeing-out seccions on the couch with boys. I have been doing stuff like this since I was 12 years old, I am 16 now. I think that I am rubbing off on my sisters in a bad way. My 13 year old sister is on the verge of having sex and I have given her tons of condums and lots of different kinds of birth control so at least she is safe, but I don't know what to do!!!!
Help me PLEASE!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 14:45:22 · 11 answers · asked by amandaco45 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
should have kept your legs closed in the first place and tell your sister to do the same. You certainly aren't mature enough to be having sex and I'd say the same is true for your sister.
2007-03-22 15:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by starla_o0 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are obviously going to be an influence on your younger siblings.. but you cant be a hipocrit and tell them they cant do it at the age you were doing it...i also dont understand how you can be giving your lil sister prescription birth control and stuff when they are not prescribed for her obviously.. that could put her in danger right there..you should act as a rolemodel and stop with the promiscuous sex and masterbation.. if your little sister well-being means that much to you, you will stop and show her what better things there are to do then having sex, masterbating, and other things...before you give your sister help and advice, you should get advice and help first...youre sister may not even listen as most 13 year olds dont.. theyre going to do what they want, but that doesnt mean you can start to change your life around...dont be a whore..
2007-03-22 22:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK for you but not for her? She's seen you casually letting boys masturbate with you on the living room couch for most of her life and now you're shocked that she wants to do it too? Have you been urging her to masturbate herself as much as you've just been pushing the birth control devices at her? What exactly is your question, anyway?
2007-03-22 23:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well at least your making sure she's safe and unless your truly TRULY worried DON'T tell your parents or she will never trust you again. But you have to make it clear that a man should love you for who you are on the inside. I know it sounds cheesy but you have to let her know that sex isn't love.
2007-03-22 22:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jean E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!!! DO NOT GIVE YOUR SISTER BIRTH CONTROL!!! That can be very very very dangerous. All you should do is talk to her seriously about not having sex and waiting. If she can't wait, give her condoms and make sure she is totally safe.
2007-03-22 23:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lead by example. If you dont want her to do it than you need to stop doing it. you cant tell her not to do something that you yourself does everyday. Its a good thing that she is protected but you need to protect her with more than just that. Explain to her how to phyically protect her self from people that she doesnt want to have sex with. be the big sister.
2007-03-22 22:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mama of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to play safe. If she doesn't know what she is doing, stay with oral sex. It's just as good and you can't get preggy.
2007-03-23 12:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord, I don't believe in you, and I do curse you a lot...but if you are out there...
...please save our society.
2007-03-23 21:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of have kept your privites to your self. and now your sister is paying the price of your wrong doing.
2007-03-23 00:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to use them condoms.
2007-03-22 22:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋