what's the best way to mend a broken heart?

Answer 1

Take a good look at your life, change what you don't like about it, embrace the things you do like about it. Make new goals, but most importantly move onward and upward.

Answer 2

My heart has recently been stood on, so i know exactly how you feel. I believe that the best way of dealing with a broken heart is to move on as best you can. Try and keep your self busy, surround yourself with good friends, and believe that there is 'someone else'
Only time can mend a broken heart,and then someone else can help mend it. Just try and smile, fake it till ya make it :P

Answer 3

It takes good old sweet time, and a lot of prayer. God is with you more than ever during hard times. Call on him, he's here with you. There's a reason for what has happened, he may not reveal it to you in this life time, but you have to have faith in him. Long walks help, so does calling on your friends. You will make it through this and things will get better. What helped me was being alone for a while, smiling, going on long walks, doing a lot of volunteer work and excises. So remember the only refuge from the storm is in God, knowing and trusting that there are reasons and his are perfect reasons, and that something much better is coming into your life, because He is in control and has a plan. God has already picked out the perfect love for you. Be patience, strong & keep the faith.


A friend told me; Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile

Answer 4

The best way is T-I-M-E and healing.... Go out and do things and have fun and try to keep your mind off negative and sad things. Over time things get better and your heart will start to heal and get stronger once again. Good luck to you and here comes lots of hugs you way. Also seek counseling if need be. Make new friends and meet new people as well. Do positive and fun things and laugh and have a good time.

Answer 5

Don't jump into another relationship or you will just carry the baggage from the last one to the new one. I would seek out a professional to talk it over with, get your life in order, and then once you have some distance get back out there and look for your soulmate because when you find your soulmate--you cannot walk away. Now if you are talking about a broken heart in death, you will never get over it. You just have to pick up the pieces and carry them through therapy and life.

Answer 6

It just goes away when you finish dealing with the things that get drug up from your subconcious. Chances are you will figure out things if you explore them, and then while you are doing that you accidentally begin to establish a new routine, and then you just need to reclaim your self-respect and confidence. And then, "Presto!", you're all better, and you're stronger, wiser, happier, and a heckuva lot smoother maybe.

It's Spring! You can bite the heads off chocolate Easter bunnies soon if things are still dragging out:}

Answer 7

hun, there is no way to mend a broken heart.
it takes time, friends, and [not to mention] hookups.
try not to think about your heart breaker, and think of them as just friends.
think of your friendship before you went out with them. not things that happened during your relationship.
that makes it all the worse.
feel better.
I have empathy for you=]

Answer 8

Give yourself as much time as you need to grieve. There are going to be many lonely nights, and maybe even some crying involved. Nothing that isn't normal. Never pretend that it didn't happen, better to deal with it upfront then to push it behind you for now and date someone else. It will come back to haunt you. Just give yourself lots of time to heal.

Answer 9

have a damm good cry and re-enter life. Do things you enjoy, go out and have fun and in time your heart will heal. Don't hide how you are feeling talk to people you trust a bout how you are feeling. Dont bottle up your feelings let them out

Answer 10

My hearts broken, and in the midst of all thats happened 2 me, this is wut i got so far. theres steps.

1. grieve. at first, theres nothing u can do about it. its impossible not 2 be miserable. cry, scream, or do wut i do, beat the crap out of a tree with a metal bat wile crying and screaming profanities at the top of your lungs and hope your neighbors arent out taking a walk.

2. accept that it is over. dont hold on to hope that things might work out. that wil just make u more miserable for a longer amount of time. and hey, if by sum chance it dus happen 2 work out, good 4 u. but dont count on it. let it go.

3. Carry on with life. get back into the swing of things. hang out with friends. try your best not 2 always talk about it. on the other hand, dont leave it bottled up. let them know how u feel, but at the same time u need 2 try and hav fun. notice that i sed TRY, its harder than youd think.

4. this step is the hardest 4 me, and i wouldnt hav realized this if it werent 4 a frend that told me how he got control of his broken heart and screwed up life. here it is, U DONT HAVE 2 LET IT CONTROL YOU. there is a point wen u can just say, "im not going 2 let it bother me any mor" . im sick of living life in misery. stop thinking about the person that broke your heart, remember, u accepted that its not going 2 work out. spend time away from them. dont go out of your way 2 talk 2 them. stop crying about it, and i know its RELY DIFFICULT. this is the biggest step. and its where im at right now. i went a week without crying over losing the love of my life. (now shes got a new boyfriend, which makes things even more difficult than before)

im not sure about the rest but heres my guess

5? hang in there, let time take its course. hanging out with friends of the opposite sex is good, it helps take ur mind off wuts bothering you. although it seems strange, interests in other girls wil develope. act on them and simply have fun.

6? understand that you wont be completely over it 4 a very long time, if ever. you might be better, but there will always be a scar. learn 2 think of the memories and happy things and dont dwell on them.

5 and 6 were just guesses. but thats my 2 cents worth. hope things work out 4 u. im feeling wut ur feeling, and just know its going 2 be okay eventually.

id like 2 leave you with one final thought.
remeber, how much you put into a relationship is how much its going 2 hurt wen its over.