has any other guys noticed that the guys not looking for a girlfriend get a girlfriend, and the ones who are dont? because i do and i think it is messed up
2007-03-22 14:24:48 · 12 answers · asked by jeremy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I hadn't noticed that. I have noticed that the guys not looking for boyfriends, however, always end up with the hottest guys. I've not been looking for a long time so when is it MY turn??
2007-03-22 14:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by behrmark 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's because when you are desperate you don't come across as attractive to the opposite sex...it comes across as needy. That is why guys who come across as a little cocky and/or aloof always get the girl.
2007-03-22 14:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Justintime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that women are so tired of guys always "attcking" them that when they see one that is confient in his self, it attracts them, other cases I have heard girls say that they enjoy getting hooked with a guy that already has a gf, js for the challenge or whatver.. I have to agree with you though,.. its messed up...
2007-03-22 14:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by J. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is messy that u asked this Q in THIS section... but I will say that for EVERYONE hetero or LGBT usually are not that successful finding someone if they are looking desperately for someone... THAT always comes across.
2007-03-22 14:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by front door 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never get something when you look for it. psychologically speaking? girls see a guy who is "looking" as cocky arrogant, &etc. they dont want that. guys who arent looking on the other hand, come off as nice and caring (not saying that they are). just be patient. you'll find her/she'll find you eventually.
2007-03-22 14:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by sodasplosion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is life like this? It makes me mad sometimes, but it also proves interesting. Life and love can be like a random grab bag. You never know what's enclosed!
2007-03-22 14:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm still waiting for Mr. Right. But Mr. Right Now will do.
2007-03-23 04:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is true! Also, a guy is more popular with other women when he is obviously with someone already.
2007-03-22 14:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, and that's sometimes the case, but not always.
2007-03-22 14:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT HAPPENED TO ME AND MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND I WASN'T EVEN LOOKING AND BOOM WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5 YRS NOW
2007-03-22 14:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by DIE BASHER 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋