short version of long story:
theres this girl at my high school who has nowhere to live cause her parents use 2 abuse her so she makes deals with guys that shell sleep wit them if they feed her and let her sleep at there house
i made an arangement with her to do that but then i really started likeing her
i let her move in with me and my family loves her but i cant stand her anymore, shes become so clingly. how do i get her out of my house ?
2007-03-22 14:07:57 · 11 answers · asked by man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her there are flees in her bed
2007-03-22 14:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is clingy because she is scared. Put yourself in her place. How would you feel if you had been abused by your family and had nowhere to turn? To get her to not be as clingy you need to find her some girl friends her own age. Can you imagine how afraid she is every night when she goes to sleep that she is going to be asked to leave. Help make her your sister by encouraging her to have friends. That will help her feel loved and wanted. You know what? When both of you are in your 40's and have separate lives, you will look back on this as some of the best years of your lives. She will appreciate what you did for her bring her home and it will make you feel so proud that you did something very special to help her. Think about it. Give her a hug and call her "Sis."
2007-03-22 14:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-22 14:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 23:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one and its sad that she had to make deals to sleep with guys just to have a place to live. You used her and maybe your guilt is getting to you. Tell her she can stay as a friend but thats it not sex nothing. You say you started liking her and now she is too clingy? Stop sleeping with her and just be her friend
2007-03-22 14:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh!! That is so wrong that she makes deals to sleep with guys. She needs to go to the police because she's being abused. You need to tell her the truth.
2007-03-22 14:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Manrolls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she can go live with your family. Now that you are done with her. Has it dawned on you, that you are an abuser in the category with her parents?
2007-03-22 14:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, this is a weird situation. i would just talk to her, you have no obligation to her (technically) so if she bothers you that much just tell her to leave. but she has obviously some emotional issues from her past which may be why she is acting this way. just talk to her and your family. this is her life so be careful.
good luck!
2007-03-22 14:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she slept around alot, I hope you used protection and practiced safe sex, this girl needs professional help, not a bunch of roommates.
2007-03-22 14:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of Course she is clingy, you are the only decent person who has cared for her... be more sympathetic... and help her get some therapy
2007-03-22 14:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋