I am 20 years old, I've been with my fiancé for 3 years and I am 7mo pregnant. We just got an apartment together about 3 months ago. I moved back with my mom a month ago because we just argued uncontrollably, about anything and everything. Now he wants me to come back and I do too (I miss him so much) but I don't want all the drama and the fighting. How can we live together successfully? We both get mad easily and my hormones are just too much right now. How can we make this work? Any advice?
2007-03-22 14:05:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Living together can be difficult, and it requires some adjustment and compromise. To add to the picture, you're also pregnant and your emotions/hormones can be all over the place. This is a time when you especially need to exercise patience and ask forgiveness of each other. Since you both know that you want to be together, and you're expecting a child very shortly, you and he need to sit down and talk seriously about your future together. Be open about what's bothering both of you, talk about the good and the bad, what you mean to each other, how much you want this to work, and that you both need to handle your disagreements differently. Resolve to only talk about the issue, no yelling, no cursing, no name calling. Come up with a solution you can both live with, and once you've resolved that problem, don't bring it up again. It's hard to remember what's good between you during the difficult times, but that's when you need to remind yourselves and each other why and what you two love about each other. Resolve to love each other and make it work !!
2007-03-25 15:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try sleeping over first and then slowly work it up to moving in their permanently. You are engaged too this person so you obviously love him, so you need to try and work it out . Yall are having a child together, so yall need to not have that much drama cause it does cause it will cause stress in the child as well .
Also why dont you both try and go to counseling if you think that yall both have anger issues
2007-03-22 14:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both are somewhat immature. Maybe you never had the chance to get out in the world and experience real life. If you think this might be the case, you should live apart for a time and do some LIVING and then try again.
2007-03-22 14:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a extremely emotional time. A strong commitment with each other will only get you through this...sure it won't prevent arguments but they will never be bigger than the love you have between you and your fiance...believe that, live that and better days are ahead for both of you...good luck.
2007-03-22 14:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you both say, "Let's make this work."
Then make it work.
If you really love each other, you two will figure it out. If not, get the child support money and start paying your Mom rent.
2007-03-22 14:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by SnowWebster2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should live with your mom Till you have the Baby.Meanwhile he could try getting some Counceling.
2007-03-22 14:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...the both of you need to grow up.
2007-03-22 21:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
COUNSELING
2007-03-22 14:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋