how?? any tips on reeling in the men?? no cheesy luvvy duvvy be yourself answers plz.
2007-03-22 14:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by karen 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This sounds stupid but it worked out for me.
Make a list.
Write out every attribute you would like him to have. Focus on those things, dont waste you time with guys who dont match the major things on that list because you'll just be on the road to heartbreak.
I was 20 and frustrated and wrote out a list sitting in my dorm room. I married my husband less than 3 years later. Out of my list of 47 things....he is 46 of them(he's not Catholic..I let that slide since neither of us are majorly religious).
You might not date as many guys as you would have but I guarantee that you'll be dating good guys that you have things in common with. (Its another story if you just want a hookup every now and then)
If you dont want to write a list surround yourself with good people. Volunteer for causes you care about, get an internship in the field you want your career to be, etc.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 14:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by GAjen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very confident and a little trashy without looking easy. Do some eye contact and ask him a couple things about him. Then compliment something nobody else would. Show the rack off as best you can. Then be smart or act like you are. Not sure if you'll reel him in for good but you'll reel him in.
2007-03-22 14:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Joe T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that when I volunteer doing something I really like, for ex, helping the elderly or just reading playing cards, vol. at a vet hospital, helping disable children, that I run into the nicest people I met in my life. When people volunteer they usually love what they are doing and do it to keep busy and are mostly good people because bad people don't usually want to help anyone or anybody. think about it, take care Heather
2007-03-22 14:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im a good guy and all but i like a girl that is not scared to show what she wants. ok basicly find a guy dont be a stocker or anyhting but see what he likes and get his # GO OUT!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 14:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to know what you want in a guy once you know that then dont accept anything less.....
2007-03-22 14:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't whore yourself out... all the slime balls will give up on you if you aren't easy
2007-03-22 14:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me!
2007-03-22 14:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Joe S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋