I put her on punishment , make her write , stand her in the corner , what to do , she is an honor student and she has been sassing back to teacher and brothers !
2007-03-22 14:01:02 · 12 answers · asked by Me777 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well, I MAKE my kids care by systematically taking away their things one by one for every show of disrespect and attutide. When they can show human attritubes, such as kindness and compassion.. then they can earn their things back... if I haven't thrown them out of given them to the needy. When it gets personal enough, they will start to care. My kid knows that when she acts older, she gets treated older. But if she shows disrespect.. even your pillow and bed are mine. (but it has never gotten that far). I don't yell. I don't show any anger. It's just matter of fact... 'oh, you sassed me off... your t.v. is now getting carried to my room.' matter of fact.. no emotion punishment. Cause and effect. She will care (and I bet she does, she doesn't want to show it).
2007-03-22 14:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if you ever read the bible, but the word of God says that if you spare the rod you spoil the child. You are the parent, you are supposed to discipline her.
I know that everyone has different takes when it comes to this, but think of how she will be in the future unless you show her the right way to go - shape her in the way she should grow and when she's older she'll not depart from it. She might even end up in Juvie and that would mess everything else for her in future.
My suggestion, start now, she needs to listen and follow orders and treat other people with respect.
2007-03-22 21:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
she is not sassing you so you go to the teacher and find out why she is disrespecting this teacher there may be a reason for it not all teacher deserve respect
as far as her brothers so Way there kids that is how they talk to each other let them deal with it
2007-03-22 22:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be too late. If you do not have a loving relationship with this 12 year old, there is no basis for her to respect what you say! Love is the key to influencing someone in your family; once this goes..its nearly impossible. You need to learn what love is and then apply it to your daughter..then she will listen to what you have to say! Then, she will "care" about your opinion.
2007-03-22 21:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes when you are overly critical and overly involved they just give up. (Never gonna please her, so why bother attitude)
Shes obviously very smart, and (unless she is under the influence of someone or something), she will make the right decision.
If not she will have to learn from her own mistakes.
Good luck
2007-03-22 21:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by ☺☻☺☻☺☻ 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well i think u should talk 2 here ask
here if she has problem she can count on
u you shoul tell here that what ever it is she can tell
u anything with u not getting mad.
2007-03-22 21:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mz.Quintanilla 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS TESTING YOU
you need to put your foot down
punish her by taking PRIVELEGES away
no friends
no tv
ect
2007-03-22 21:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by dt 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Military school.
2007-03-22 21:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
whoop her ***...she'll learn eventually... if not, beat her more
2007-03-22 22:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.contreras 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get the belt
2007-03-22 21:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by no one 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋