She's pregnant again. We really don't want to have this kid. She's down for another abortion, but will it hurt her body? She also had one a couple years ago when we weren't together.
2007-03-22 13:50:22 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
As long as she gets it done in a good place and not in the alley she should be fine.
I would seriously consider using birth control. Put on a condom at the very least. Get her on the pill or shot or something.
Good luck.
2007-03-22 13:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
ok maybe I can help on this one. I had an abortion and ended up pregnant again within a few months too. This is because you are so fertile after the procedure!!! I decided that I would keep this baby and am expecting a baby boy in a few weeks...before you go through with it maybe you should toss around the idea that she got prego again because you are meant to have a baby. Things happen for a reason. And yes having too many can hurt her body. I read that you are more at risk of miscarriages and high-risk pregnancies in the future after having multiple abortions. If your not ready...don't have sex unprotected. I was scarred but now I can't wait for my baby boy to arrive!!!
2007-03-22 16:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by A.B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all if ya'll dont want a baby then why do you keep having UNPROTECTED SEX??? Multilple abortions so close together could cause trouble. I am not saying it will just that it could.. Why people dont think of this kind of stuff before having sex is beyond me.. My husband and I was barely dating when I became pregnant with my daughter.. We kept her "abortion is NOT a choice for me".. Anyway she is the best thing that ever happened to us. We have been married 2 years now and expecting baby #2.. If she does decide to go thru with killing another baby.. Then do something to keep this from happening again.. These innocent lifes arent being asked to be made that was ya'll decision when you decided not to protect against a pregnancy.....
2007-03-22 15:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by auntietawnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so this will be her 3rd abortion? Despite the fact that i dont like abortion, i spend half my time on this place defending girls who are having an abortion, but women like your girlfriend annoy the hell out of me "uh oh woopsie i got pregnant again well i guess its back to the abortion clinic" it is not birth control and if you cant use a condom or take the pill then keep your flipping clothes on!
im sorry to be rude but pregnancy CAN be prevented and having three abortions in what sounds to me like only a few years probably will have some higher risks of complications and infections get your girlfriend to ask a doctor
2007-03-22 14:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by dee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most women can have multiple abortions without it being harmful. But I had a friend in high school that had 4 abortions in 3 years. Some time after the 4th one, she ended up in the ER with pelvic pain. They found that she had gangrene in one of her ovaries, and so much scar tissue in her uterus that they doubted she would ever be able to conceive or carry a child to term. Well, now we are in our early 30's, and she has been trying to get pregnant for years with no luck. That's a risk I wouldn't want to take.
Will your girlfriend consider adoption?
2007-03-22 16:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it can1 is risky two is double risky and the 3rd time your chance of causing infertility flies up, my friend had too many abortions nwo she cant have kids, you are most fertile after aborting and giving birth so guys use bloody condoms your a horrible boyfriend to put her through this 3 times, cant you get a brain and use a condom or make her take the pill, grow up and be resposible you are both destroying your chances for future kids, not only that the scar tissue abortions make are not good scar tissue in the reproductive area can cause cerviacle cancer..
I feel sorry for her body and the babies you keep killing, please use contraception!
2007-03-22 13:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by jazyj 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She needs to start protecting herself (from pregnancy and STDs). With every abortion there is a chance of her ruining her body to the point of not being able to have any children when she is ready. Pregnancy is not something to mess around with. She is killing a life and if she doesn't want a baby then she needs to prevent it from happening or put it up for adoption so that a couple who does want children can have the gift. There are so many adoptive parents waiting for a baby and she is just throwing one away. She is playing with fire!
2007-03-22 14:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Trying♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it can hurt her body, and it can eat away at her emotionally. The physical trauma can be short lasting, but the emotionally trauma will follow her for all the days of her life.
She should have the baby, and give it up for adoption. There are many couples out there who cannot have kids and would give the baby a warm, happy, loving home.
Some states even have a law, allowing the mother to leave a newborn baby born in the last 48 hours, at the hospital/police station without any legal repercussions. They won't even ask for a name.
2007-03-22 14:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Persoaly think irresponible to have sex and not use protection specaly if dont want kids at point in your life second yes one claimed abortion can make infertile and damage you as well its true done incorrectly but same can happen if you birth think both you need use protection of some sort use some common sense here .
2007-03-25 16:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by pixiedraco2003666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically it is more risky to carry a baby to term. I wouldn't recommend constantly getting abortions; they are not meant to be used as birth control. If you don't want any kids, stop being so irresponsible. For the hundreds of dollars wasted on an abortion, just think of all the condoms you could have bought. And it can leave scarring inside of her uterus.
2007-03-22 14:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by camiasia2000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG...Buy a box of damn condoms already!! Abortion should not be used as birth control!! You know your not ready to have a baby so why do you refuse to use protection?? It would be so much easier on your girlfriends body, not to mention the fact you guys wouldn`t be killing an innocent life!! Grow up already...
2007-03-22 15:01:22 · answer #11 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋