dont say be urself cus myself is very shy and not so nice...how do i act nicer and make ppl love me more even some of my own cousins and aunts dont like me that much...
2007-03-22 13:48:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To become happy and more out going ..Stop caring what people think about you. Tell jokes...if you have a sense of humor, it's easy to make people laugh. Once you stop caring what people think then you can come out of your shell and be yourself.
2007-03-22 13:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to work hard to change yourself and it will take a while until your relatives come around, but if you shake off the shyness and put yourself out there and be nice to them, asking them how they are going, what they are doing atm, ask them over for dinner etc, the will eventually see you as a nice person
2007-03-22 20:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you need to love yourself. Do you love yourself? Also, there is no reason to be unkind, unless someone is being unkind to you. It is easy to be nice. Just smile, ask people how they are doing, and seem genuinely interested in what they are saying. People love to talk, so be a good listener. Find things that you and other people have in common in your conversations. I hope this helps. Good Luck! Smile! :)
2007-03-22 20:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by msnothinbutalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to reach out of the box yes people tell you to be yourself but it sounds to me you dont know who you are because you want be nice to people but u state your a mean person it sounds to me you need more interaction with general public and some long nights with coffee to think it all over.
2007-03-22 20:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tonka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i think u should do is just talk to them tell them how much u love all of them try to be more postive about ur self and try talking more be more outgoing go ahead and maybe go to a party hang around with some friends if u want good luck
2007-03-22 20:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by STEPHANIE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, whenever you're in a situation that you have to answer or do something you normally wouldn't do, do it! Don't be shy. Be ultra outgoing and friendly. People will love you and you will shine like the sun.
2007-03-22 20:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by j;eaojtoig;45jho;54ihu;45hujt54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself first before other will, you say your depressed, you have to have enough self confidence in yourself to take care of you and have enough patience to help others too, but you come first. By helping others you will gain their respect and returned your efforts with loving appreciation...I already appreciate you for wanting to be a better person...continue to try and you will be loved more.
2007-03-22 20:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, how old are you? for if i had to guess you would be between the ages of 10 and 15.......do things that are fun for you, if you have a talent, the express yourself...painting, playing an instrument, collecting, no matter what it is, get involved in your community and help out
2007-03-22 20:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly what grown lady answered, treat ppl how you would like to be treated, and think of other ppls feelings look at their faces , you can tell if your offending someone just by the look on their faces if you see that look , start over and reapproach , they will see if your trying to fix your wrongs, good luck
2007-03-22 20:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard. people try too hard and that is usually what is so annoying about them, just calm down and relax and have a normal conversation with them and stop trying to impress them. when ever you try to impress someone you either look like a show off, and idiot, a liar, and so on. but if its just that your not being nice, then simply stop being mean.
2007-03-22 20:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Joe D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋