2007-03-22 13:37:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him . . . . .
2007-03-22 13:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes anyone can file for divorce without the others permission or knowledge of the filing until the other receives the papers. Why do you feel like this? Has he said something to make you assume this? What I would do if I were you be up front with him and just ask him if this is what he is going to do. Don't you think being up front with this man is a lot better than worrying about it.
When a person files for divorce it is only public record after the lawyer has filed the paperwork. A person can start the procedure and tell the attorney to hold off on filing until a later date. So be honest with how you are feeling with him, this is the best way to go about it.
You are the only one who can tell if he is being honest with you and trust your instincts.
Good luck with what ever you decide to do.
2007-03-22 23:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I filed for a divorce from my first husband and he did not know it until the divorce papers were served to him at the front door by the sheriff. If you want to know for sure whether your husband is getting a divorce then you should ask him so you can be prepared.
2007-03-22 20:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he can file for divorce without telling you, you'll find out when you get served divorce papers.
2007-03-23 04:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can file for divorce without you knowing. If he is straight up you will know, but if he decided to be underhanded there are ways to actually get a divorce without the other party knowing. Will it be legal? It depends on which attorney has the ear of the judge if it is ever questioned.
2007-03-22 21:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is just the final step! Not the first. If you THINK he's thinking of leaving you, then now is the time to figure out if you're right or not. Don't wait to be served with divorce papers to figure out what's going on!!!!
2007-03-22 20:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife's ex-husband divorced her without her knowledge. While they were separated he had all the papers sent to an address he knew she no longer lived at so when she never showed up for any of the court appointments they granted him a divorce.
2007-03-22 20:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by theanswerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ,he can file for divorce .Are you a control freak that needs him to ask if it is alright to file for divorce .
A guy only files for 2 reasons .
#1 he met someone else .
#2 you must have been an incompatible partner .
Pushy ,domineering ,distrusting ,jealous or controlling .How was the Bedroom action ?
Boredom is the third reason .
2007-03-22 21:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is planning to leave you you will find out soon enough divorce papers will come in the mail or you will be served with them i think you need to protect your self and talk to some one attorney, clergy etc
2007-03-22 20:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can file for divorce without you knowing but you have to be served the divorce papers. it can't happen any other way. so basically you can't be divorced without knowing it
2007-03-22 20:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, nice name! forget the punk - you are better off without him anyway. yes he can file for divorce and you'll find out sooner or later - and then be happy to be rid of the little brainstem.
2007-03-22 20:43:19 · answer #11 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋