My wife dosn't truly enjoy sex, hasn't really ever, I was wondering if maybe it's because she is overweight. And not just me. We are both very over weight and I was told that overweight couples don't enjoy sex the way normal body types do. Is this true.
2007-03-22 13:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by Mscott21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what are normal body types look around you most people are overweight that is like being told that thin people don't feel pain but grab one by the balls and see if he can tell you the difference in pain and pleasure one of my lovers is overweight and he feels fine to me and enjoys doing me for at least an hour once he is started . you just need to work on it and at it
2007-03-22 14:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by hotblonde 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that's quite a question man. If your wife doesn't enjoy sex it is not because she's over weight. The only thing that's different between overweight couple's and fit couple's is they may be able to do more position's and different thing's in that area. Although it would not just be you that is not doing is right. many woman don't enjoy sex and they need to work at it just like the man. women need to learn about their body's and be able to get them self's off before a man can ever do it for them. Women need to know what they like and be able to comunicate this to their partner.
2007-03-25 06:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy Leaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well No, but overweight people are limited to doing sex in certain ways depending on how heavy they are. Sex should be enjoyable as if you are thin too, like I said just limited to certain positions. I used to be heavey and I loved it still, however, if this has been an ongoing problem maybe you both should go to a sex therapist, there are homones in a womans body that are lacking to give your wife her regular sex drive and this is fixable with a hormone pill or whatever a needle every few months or something. Life is too short not to enjoy it so go and have lots of fun after. Take care Heather
2007-03-22 13:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I truly believe this is so. A woman who is not comfortable in her body is always trying to hide it and that takes a lot of effort. She is inhibited as well because she can't just "let go" and enjoy sex. She may not have much stamina and may not be able to enjoy some of the truly great sexual positions. She's thinking about how fat and ugly she looks from different angles and how could he possibly want to have sex with her. There's also the fact to that excess weight may make it difficult for bodies to align well enough to produce the most erotic and stimulating of sensations. If a woman knows that her man thinks she is wildly sexy and looks great, she FEELS sexy and wants to have sex anywhere and anytime. being overweight makes a woman feel very undesirable and tired and depressed. A woman who looks great and is within normal limits for weight and height just feels good about herself and her self-esteem is higher.
2007-03-22 13:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the way that you feel about your body has a lot to do with your sex life. Sounds a though neither one of you are comfortable with your bodies. Perhaps you can focus on being healthy together first which also has a lot to do with your energy and endurance level and see if after getting more physically fit that you may feel better about a lot of things. If this does not help, then I suggest counseling for the two of you, perhaps a sex therapist
2007-03-22 13:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mine is pushing 270 lbs. I'm athletic though. (I married her for her character and personality, plus she was once really hot!) Being near 50 I can't boast that I'm a romeo! I just don't have the endurance! However, I don't make love to satisfy me, but her. It's all in the perspective. Yeah, I do get mine too, quite often, but I get more pleasure knowing she is enjoying herself! It is always this focus! She's first then me if she can live through it and I'm not half dead!
2007-03-22 13:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been thin and I have been heavy (125-210) I'm currently working on getting thin again. The only time sex was not enjoyable for me was when I felt like crap about myself. It had nothing to do with the weight. it was all in my mind. My husband tried to help by telling me I was beautiful, but ultimately it was me that had to feel it.
What really helped me was, my husband and I started walking together around the neighborhood. The exercise and fresh air really started to make me feel better about myself. Plus it gave us a chance to bond with each other by talking and walking and holding hands.
2007-03-22 13:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Overweight woman are much more adventurous in bed and generally enjoy sex more than skinny woman. there are of course exceptions but they are in the minority
2007-03-22 13:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its how confident in yourself if she doesnt have alot of confidence she wont enjoy it and neither will you. I have a ton of confidence and am overweight as well but i am horny as hell and thoroughly enjoy sex. check out a cosmo mag for some interesting sex tips.
2007-03-22 13:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by tiffers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think its true, it depends on how comfortable you are with yourself. Some dieting and exercise would make it even more enjoyable. Vitamins mixed with that and you cant lose.
2007-03-22 13:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by Rosiebud 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋