i'm a lesbian and a lot of my friends are. we hang out after school and kiss and make out and get naked. but they start to go over bored. they want to actually have sex. i did it once with with my friend alex. but i'm to yung. how can i go one day with out looking at their naked bodys?
2007-03-22 13:00:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stop hanging out with them too much ? get a life outside of them .
2007-03-22 13:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HEY SUM YOU HAVE TOO LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT AGAINST SEX, BUT YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE TOO YUNG TO BE SEXUALLY ACTIVE AND IF YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH WHAT THEY ARE DOING AND YOU SAY "NO!!" THEN YOU HAVE BEEN RAPED. TOO AVOID SEEING THERE NAKED BODIES, YOU MUST NOT DO THE THINGS THAT WILL CAUSE YOU TOO GET NAKED, NOW IF THEY CHOOSE TO KISS AND THOSE OTHER THINGS YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TOO LEAVE THE ROOM AND LET THEM HAVE SEX AND WHEN THE ACT IS OVER THEN YOU CAN RETURN IF YOU CHOOSE. IF IT IS MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE THEN YOU NEED TO SEPERATE FROM THEM UNTIL YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH TOO SAY NO AND STOP ALL ACTS. DON'T EVER ALLOW ANOTHER PERSON TOO MAKE YOU DO SOMETHING YOU DON'T WANT TO DO OR FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE DOING. BE SAFE MY SISTER AND HOLD OUT TIL YOU ARE READY.
ANTWAUNE
2007-03-22 20:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by antwaune w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After having read some other answers, I think it's in my best interest to also answer. First of all, don't allow someone to tell you how you ought to feel and what's "normal." Second of all, say "no" to anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. I know it's kind of hard. I know that at this point you just want to be accepted for who you are instead of what everyone else wants to be. But don't let them take advantage of you. Respect yourself, no matter what. And if anyone has something against you just because you're a lesbian, forget them. They're not worth your time. I'm bi-sexual and damn proud of it. Females used to avoid me because of that fact, but now it doesn't matter to me because they're not worth the time. It's your body and your mind. Not theirs. Do what you feel is right.
2007-03-22 20:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Farrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. that's disgusting I'm sorry. But first off it sounds as though you're waaay to young to be doing any of these things. And you're doing them with people of the same gender? I know most people on here don't really care about gays or lesbians.. all been brain washed by society that its ok, well its NOT. Exploiting gay acts is a sin.. its wrong. Get some help, some therapy. Find a nice decent guy and get away from those girls.
2007-03-22 20:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could wear a blindfold. But, seriously, since you know that that is what they are going to do, you can't really change the situation. So, I guess the only thing you can really do is stay out of the situation. Perhaps only hang out with them in more public areas, where nothing would go beyond the kissing stage.
2007-03-22 20:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Pichu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a poor troubled soul who can't spell. Take it that alex is a guy. Are you sure you're a lesbian? Maybe you should want to wait til you grow up to decide what you are and what you want to do and with who. It's not always good to go along with the crowd.
2007-03-22 20:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do something, don't. Lesbian sex is still sex and I have a feeling you are underage. You still have alot of growing up to do. Maybe you are not ready for a sexual relationship and just want a friendship.
2007-03-22 20:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by chattychica04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an idea. Next time you and one of your friends "make out" and "get naked" give me a call so I can watch.
2007-03-22 20:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them exactly how you feel. Tell them that you don't want to go farther than what you are going... if they don't listen to you than they aren't worth your time in the first place.... try to find someone tht you truleycare about before you get into that kinda stuff!
2007-03-22 20:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by nutmehgy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a better after school activity!
2007-03-22 20:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋