HELP my mom still buys me clothes and im 15?!?

Question

My mom still buys me clothes not that i go shopping with her but she surprises me and brings me clothes when she goes shopping for herself last time she bought me this yellow shirt with a collar like this
http://www.theperfectpear.com/7750pinkcollardetail.jpg
it is really embrassing to wear such clothes at school or anywhere, even if i go shopping with her she tells me my choice is bad and that i should buy the clothes she thinks look good on me and look sophisticated and she buys me pants that are grey or golden from the old peoples department. I dont know what to do, she wont let me wear normal clothes she gets very mad when i do and says i dont respect her. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
She made me get a haircut like the old men have
wat is wrong, and what should i do?! its really really embrassing
BTW im a guy this is my sisters account

Answer 1

You have to tell her that you appriciate her caring about you but you would rather pick out your own clothes. Shes going to keep on doing this unless you tell her how you feel.

Answer 2

WHAT?? so ur saying that she bought u a yellow flower collar and u are a boy? Wow u need 2 have a talk with her. Tell her how u really feel about the clothes she picks out even if it means saying the truth it hurts but u gotta do it inorder for her to understand that she needs to stop and understand ur style.

Answer 3

Well, if you don't like it, you're going to have to suck it up. Until you start working and making your own money to buy your own stuff, there really isn't anything you can do. It already seems like you have suggested what you liked, but, obviously, she doesn't like your style much either. You can always try taking the clothes she's bought and try to make them look better.

You need to evaluate what type of clothes you are picking up for your mother to pay. Are they overly expensive? This might be why your mother doesn't buy you the type of clothes you want.

Answer 4

Controlling parent. I remember those days i was the only person at the party at 16 years old with a mohair dress and socks. But i still got ask to dance and someone notice me too. Aweful. Find a book when should your parent let go at the library and read it together.

Answer 5

hang in there two more years, then you can join the Military. they let you wear anything you want and wear the coolest haircuts. but you might have to kill people. or die. or you could just enjoy being young because you'll be making your own way soon enough. p.s. when your still living in your mothers basement at 33 years old , I hope she reminds you of this. My parents beat and abused me. I was blinded in my left eye at two years old, just for fun. my cloths came from the Goodwill and Salvation Army. enjoy your pampered life.

Answer 6

She just can't let go of how like when your a baby she dresses you. Tell her nicley that I need to pick out my own clothes. She bought you a flower collar for a boy?!?

Answer 7

Don't fret about it dude, I'm 43 and my mom still buys my clothes (may taste in clothes suck).

As fare as having to wear the clothes, she picks out, at school, just say you picked em out.

Answer 8

Damn, sucks for you. Tell her to give you the damn reciept when she goes shopping! Just joking.

Talk to her and tell her how you feel. I'm sure she will understand. She just is afraid that you are growing up too fast. Take charge and assert your age.

But that shirt! LOL

Answer 9

Wear your sister's hand-me-downs... at least they'll look better than the clothes your mom is buying for you!

Answer 10

Get a job, and buy the clothes that you like. Plain and simple.