What should i do my mom buys me clothes and im 15?!!?

Question

My mom still buys me clothes not that i go shopping with her but she surprises me and brings me clothes when she goes shopping for herself last time she bought me this yellow shirt with a collar like this http://www.theperfectpear.com/7750pinkcollardetail.jpg
it is really embrassing to wear such clothes at school or anywhere, even if i go shopping with her she tells me my choice is bad and that i should buy the clothes she thinks look good on me and look sophisticated and she buys me pants that are grey or golden from the old peoples department. I dont know what to do, she wont let me wear normal clothes she gets very mad when i do and says i dont respect her. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
She made me get a haircut like the old men have
wat is wrong, and what should i do?! its really really embrassing

Answer 1

Dude you're 15 and old enough to get a job. Get a job and pay for your own clothes and haircuts. She can still give you crap about it but you can just tell her it's your money. Or if she won't let you get a job talk with her. Tell her her choices just aren't the kinds of things you like. Don't say they're ugly cos then she might make you wear them out of spite. And also tell her that she's not respecting you by making you wear things that make you uncomfortable. See if you can come to a happy medium. Good luck!

Answer 2

well the first thing you have to do is talk to your mom about it. tell her how you feel about her buying you clothes that you don't like. that you really appreciate what she's doing. if she gets mad about it and tell you that you don't respect her, tell her that you respect her more than anyone that's why you tell her how you feel. if you don't respect her you could have told her that her style is very old and you could start buying your own clothes. but you didn't because you want her approval and you don't want her to get very upset and disappointed. tell her that you're always going to respect her. you're growing and you are starting to be independent and make up your own decisions. you don't want to be dependent with your mom all the time. you're becoming a teenager and possibly a girl now. you should tell your mom that. she will understand eventually.

Answer 3

Tell your mom what's what.

If you don't agree with her you need to make sure she knows exactly what your views are. And don't let her interrupt.

But keep it calm and civil.

Make sure she knows that you have your own tastes and likes and that you WILL NOT be undermined in how you want to be seen in public.

Tell her your fashion is your choice and not hers. Say she will not dictate your life. She is a parent first and foremost and a parents job is to work with their children in life, not to control them.

Answer 4

Well I say you should talk to your mom about it- i mean she is your mom...or try shopping yourself..go with a bunch of friends and go to like american eagle and abercrombie and areopostale.. hope i could help.. good luck

Answer 5

Tell her how you feel...what's the worst she could do? If you start asking for money/giftcards to store where you can buy clothes, instead of gift, them you could start buying your own clothes.

Answer 6

well you should try talking to your mom about this, let her no how you feel toward this situation, try not to be have or disrespectful

Answer 7

just talk 2 her tell her wat u like is wat u wanna wear. not 2 be rude but tell her that we're livin in 2007 and that things r different now. i hope i helped, just bring this conversation ^ randomly like u just thuoght about it.