my question is about man that beats their wife?

Question

I never in my life believe in beating a woman, I think we should protect our women, and love them...but why would a woman tell me to not beat my future woman if I suspect her to be cheating...is it because that could be the most likely action I would take if it happenned (fellows, answers that one) or is it that my wife is likely to cheat?

Please try to understand where im coming from, I am in no wait planning to hit my future wife, i don't think I will ever do, I'm trying to understand the psychology behind it

Answer 1

the odds against your wife cheating are as great as there are men in the world. It is a trait of women to cheat to gain the things they cannot gain in ther relationship and they do it without remorse and justify it on your inability to give them what they want. They are just like politicians with a motive. Intentions are to capture, dominate, control and steal whatever their abilities will allow them to above and beyond your abilities to effectively protect what you have and acquire and they do it in the name of love. Sounds like bitterness but out of bitter situations comes the facts of experience that reflect the tendancies of a group of people to take profit without exerting effort for gain. Women picked up on this political attribute quickly and applied it to men and with the help of lobby and a little woman sufferage managed to not only steal from a man but to gain protection and in some cased enforced collection by our government gains that they have received as the result of lies, deceit and influence to a point that if you do not pay your progress in life will be limited by the same without due process. Love, I don't think so. Not any more. If it is not gain or acquisition it is not worth their time. Don't believe me, why is it that no woman ever, ever leaves a man for another man that is less successful that the one that she is with. Love comes in all shapes and sizes but they all have a tag that denotes the worth. Love like time is money and marriage is like committment, until something else comes along. Believe what you must but when it happens open your Answers folder and read the warning. I won't however say I told you so. I failed twice in marriage believing in love, honesty, committment, and the things that institutions are built on and beliefs founded. Avoid bitterness and hatred and tragedy, If you love me sign the prenup, if you are having children, ensure your liability and research your rights. PS: Your rights are directly upheld by everyone unless there is a vested interest in taking your freedom or money and then your rights are for sale to the highest bidder or the best liar. Good stuff for your folder for the future! Good luck from here.

Answer 2

The woman that told you that was probably a victim of abuse.That would be the action of a coward,someone who is not man enough to deal with the problem in a mature manner.I don't believe in it either.I agree with protecting and loving them.There are men who would resort the violence,either because they were abused themselves,they grew up in a home where their Mother was beaten,or someone feed them faults information about how they should treat a woman.

Answer 3

Homie, you're getting a little too ahead of yourself. First of all what kind of woman do you want? Is she the type that has been with everyone in the neighborhood? Or is it LOVE OR LUST? IF YOU MARRY A HO THEN BE PREPARED TO SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES. They love sex and if she rocks your world instead of you rocking hers then guess who's the boss and in control of the relationship. If she is for real and doesn't play that then you don't have anything to worry about. Now lets reverse this situation how about if she caught you cheating, would you let her beat your a--? think about it? Is it fair? PAPA HANK

Answer 4

I don't believe in hitting a woman unless my life is in danger from her. If you don't have any more control than that then you walk away - plain and simple! Where I was raised if we witnessed anything like that, the guy would get a taste of his own medicine with a Louisville slugger. It just isn't something a real man does!

Answer 5

its that your wife will likely cheat. feminine equality has allowed women to not need men for anything more that to fill their DNA dumpster when their ready to reproduce, and in a society based on money and sex the maternal instinct to horde things will entice them to use sex to get what they want, whether you have it or someone else does. Notice all the girls answering are concerned about a woman getting beat and don't mention their tendency to cheat or what it does to a guy emotionally

Answer 6

Whatever the case, never hit a female, it is really bad for a guy to do. Women deserve not to be treated badly no matter the case, simply talk it over or go beat up the deadbeat she went with.

Answer 7

Maybe becasue that woman has gone through it herself and doens't want to see the same thing happening. Is this woman divorced unhappy in her marraige.

I could also be that perhaps they have seen some behaviour that could inidcate your partner may take this path. But dont jump to conlcusions about this. My bet would be the first of these suggestions.

Answer 8

It relies upon on how oftentimes they persist with the sacred ceremony set forth via the mule god that they worship. First they sacrifice small animals accompanied via molesting the carcasses and finally they beat their better halves in leiu of what the holy author needs then and in basic terms then will they be regular into what they think approximately heaven it fairly is a ever-repeating action of them working right into a crowded development strapped with a vest of dynamite and taking the suitable movements of a elementary muslim.

Answer 9

Are you already with this future woman and has she been in a former abusive relationship? Unless you're known for beating women, I can't honestly see any other basis for that comment.

Answer 10

If you follow the Koran (Quran) -it instructs a man to sleep apart from her, and then beat his wife, even if he *suspects* she may be cheating, or being "disobedient". Yes, it's true:

Sheik Abd Al-Hamid Al-Muhajir explained that the Koran stipulates when a husband can beat his wife: "The Koranic verse refers only to a disobedient wife...First you must admonish...Then comes the stage of sending her to a separate bed...If this does not help either...it is said, 'and beat them'... What's better, that she gets slapped, or that she ruins her family, herself, and society?"