So about a week ago me and this girl I realllly like made out a bit, but the next day she said she only wants to be friends. So we went to a movie a few days ago and she started holding my hand and what not, obviously it didnt go as far as the other time, but she seed to really like me. Since then we've gone back to school and she hangs out with me quite a lot, but kids have kinda been teasing me and her about it. She says it wont happen again when someone asked her and she told my friend that she thinks it would be weird for me to ask her out because I know were only friends. (She told me that on msn by the way that she told him that) But she never actually went and told ME that. I've told her I liked her and she knows it. I cant tell if she likes me as friends or mabe more and just tells people that she only thinks of us as friends because I havent asked her out and because they bug her about it. Plus I kinda told her I wouldnt ask her out because i was told she didnt want me to.
2007-03-22 12:47:32 · 9 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I should also note that it was her that brought up the question if I was gonna ask her out or not. I told her no because my friend told me about what she said on msn about the 2 of us as friends. But like I said she never told me that to my face. I'm going to see a movie with her and 2 friends tomorrow and shopping with her on sunday and if things go well i was gonna ask her out just to get it over with so I dont wonder for the rest of my life. What do you think?
2007-03-22 12:47:52 · update #1
You only live once ask her out, whats the worst that can happen, she says no??
2007-03-22 12:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by cslynn1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like an immature twit to me, but if you want her the best thing you can do is ignore her. People hate to be ignored especially women. When she asks you whats wrong, and she will, then tell her that you were under the impression that she didn't want to be bothered with you. When she says that's not what she meant, then tell her you don't have time for head games so if she wants to go out fine, otherwise you'll find someone else - then do it. But my guess is she will straighten out.
2007-03-22 20:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose? If she says no, will it make things to awkward for you to continue being friends? Don't destoy a friendship by trying to make it something more. It does, however, sound like she is trying to hint at it herself: asking you about asking her out, holding your hand. If you feel secure enough with your friendship, go ahead and talk to her about taking it to the next step. Good luck!
2007-03-22 19:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by ktcougarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you made out and NOW you're deciding whether or not you should date? I'm not one to ask about this - I'm kind of bisexual, and I've mostly only dated males as of late. But because I want more points I'm just going to say "Yes." Or "48." The answer is 48.
2007-03-22 19:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by the_almighty_dib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls always play that annoying game. Aske her intently and maturley if SHe likes you only as a friend.If she tells you that she just wants to be friends but you really know she's lying, It's not worth it. If the intensity on her is strong enough to say that she likes you, she will say it no matter what.
2007-03-22 19:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by A. Roman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k, you've already told her once before you like her and you've already made out, so since it's went that far I'm sure it's not going to hurt your friendship to ask her out, considering everything that has already happened. It could possibly be what she's been waiting for, you made out and are still friends so I think it will be fine.
2007-03-22 22:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by lessie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,So you like her,talked about it with everybody else but her,she knows and your still not going out..Dude you have been out ..
Apparently the girl likes you and doesn't think you like her so she's setting it up for you..You actually liking her needs to let her know that..ask her out..talk and enjoy each others company preferably without your friends..
2007-03-22 20:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by bbsmokoloko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless what anyone said, friends, msn, even her, if you want to ask her out, ask her out, then and only then you will know where you stand with her. good luck.
2007-03-22 20:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by barrbou214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you had to ask us first.
2007-03-22 19:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋