Is it normal when pregnant to feel trapped and unhappy?

Question

I want the baby... or I did. I am 27 1/2 weeks and feel unhappy and trapped

I Do want the baby. I am excited. I am just not happy with my life anymore... I wanted this baby... what's wrong with me?

Answer 1

It is normal to feel trapped, you have this alien being taking over your body, leeching from you. Admit it, it is a very weird idea to have another human being growing inside of you. Even though you wanted to get pregnant, and want the baby, it is natural to feel overwhelmed by that concept and to just want your body back. You're getting bigger and uncomfortable. But once the baby is born you will not even remember feeling like you are. You'll be absolutely amazed that you had that unbelievable little creature inside of you. If it makes you feel better, get a calendar and mark off the days. Having a visable reminder that it's almost over will make it more tangible.

Answer 2

It is possible to become overwhelmed with the implications and preperations when a baby is due. Know that this is normal and that nothing is wrong with you. This doesn't mean you are ungreatful or that you aren't meant to be a wonderful mother.
You should consider speaking to someone about the way you are feeling, a counsellour specializing in maternity concerns would be good option. It is possible that as a result of all your hormones called into action as you body feeds and nurtures the new life inside it, that some of your hormones could have become unbalanced and is giving you mild depression.
A few things that have been proven to boost your happy hormones are:
1) excercise: swimming would be wonderful as it takes the pressure of the extra weight off your body and tones all your muscles at once.
2) Sunbathing: The vitamin D in the sun is very good for your sense of well-being as well the amount and intesity of the light hitting your cornea has been proven to aid in overcoming depression.
3) Creative outlet: do something that is about you, not the baby. You are surrounded by people focussed on the chiild you are carrying and not on you per say. Take a class on some kind of art: pottery, painting, sewing, something. Or look into an activity you have always wanted to try. Go to the spa, get a massage, pamper yourself.
I hope you feel better soon. Good luck.

Answer 3

a "baby addition" to your life can be a big shock for someone. Especially if you are used to being independent. Basically, you will not be the star of the show anymore,for a while at least, however, be happy, enjoy it and remember, your life is not over and you shouldn't feel trapped, the only time that you will be stuck for a bit is when the baby is newborn and when you are learning to be a mommy, until the baby is a little bigger. Then you can go all over the place without worrying and life can go back to normal with a little bundle of joy to love. :)

Answer 4

Whoremones....! ::lol:: As i like to call them. I just turned 28 weeks and i know how you are feeling. In the book "What to expect when you're expecting" It tells you that in the 6th month you may be feeling of bordem with the pregnancy. Main thing is your hormones, also... whether or not you think you are you maybe anxious or nervous about it getting closer to you child's birthday, and alot of times pregnant women feel left out. Everybody is there for you but you feel like it's only because of the baby. But yes, it is very normal to feel this way, especially at 27 weeks. You're just ready to meet your baby, and the anxiety and pregnancy hormones are getting the best of ya. Not too much longer to go. Good luck!

Answer 5

Awh I'm sorry you feel this way. I will say it is normal to an extent. I am 27 weeks pregnant and feel so blessed to be having a child, but sometimes i have had these feelings! I think everyone has them. It's a scary thing having a child because its not something you can take back. I also worry about these feelings but sooo many moms have told me it's normal and they've had the same thing, but it will go away once you see your beautiful baby. Good Luck! It will be OK!!!

Answer 6

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infertility can run in the family and one of the first things the doctor asks you when you go to a fertility clinic is your family history regarding cases of infertility or other reproductive issues.
If infertility is caused by genetic disorder then it's not unusual that one of the kids (your mom) doesn't have it and another does (your aunt).
two months of trying is still to early to be concerned about the fact that you might be infertile and it's also quite early to go to a fertility specialist. Go to a regular Obgyb to get a closer insight and see what ways there are are to improve your fertility rate.
Also remove alcohol, caffeine and cigarettes from your life because they might influence your chances too. Stress is also a risk factor when it comes to infertility.

Answer 7

Infertility can be caused by a huge number of factors: hormone imbalance, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, Endometriosis, Anovulatory Cycles, physical blockage, inadequate hormone production, short luteal phase, lack of lutenizing hormone, high levels or prolactin, and many others. How to get pregnant https://tr.im/ZNMWt

Poor nutrition often plays a major role, as does exposure to toxins. Age plays less of a role before menopause than was originally thought. While there are many wonderful naturally minded fertility specialists out there, in many cases it is not possible for them to test for and address any of these possible underlying issues.

Answer 8

It's so easy to get bogged down like this. It always seems to happen in the last part of the second trimester too! I would advise you to speak to your health care provider about it though, as you could be suffering from pre-natal depression. It's better to get help before it goes too far. Hope you start to feel better soon and good luck with your baby.

Answer 9

It's normal, and that feeling will pass. Your probably sleepy all the time. You want to get out and do things, but your too tired. Be sure to take your vitamins, and eat HEALTHY! Allow yourself plenty of sleep. If you haven't gone baby shopping yet, try that. Shop for cute little clothes and shoes, and maybe think of different baby names. I know how you feel. My baby is 11 months old. Trust me, you will be fine. Be strong!

Answer 10

Yes...this is completely normal. I have been hating my life the last few months...so unhappy. I am in love with my husband, my baby and my life...it is just the hormones...they love playing tricks on you!!!