I guess I did it. This happens to me a lot. I always find some way to screw things up, and now, big surprise, I managed to screw things up. Only this time, I guess it's big. Well, all of the other times it was big, too. Anyway, I don't know how to keep from losing every person I really consider a friend. I don't know why I feel I have to ask online strangers for advice, and I guess I don't feel I have to, but some advice would be appreciated. I tried apologizing, and all of that other stuff. Nothing seems to work. I hope you don't tell me stuff like 'oh they'll come around'.
Because from the looks of it, I don't think that'll happen.
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2007-03-22 12:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by abc 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well i did apologize, a lot. it doesnt work.
and i said i wanted to be friends again. also a lot.
any other advice? i guess this is really eating me.
2007-03-22 12:22:05 · update #1
First off, it it's your fault and you are sincere then apologize again.
Secondly try being more positive; you said you "always find some way to screw things up" well if you think that way, then guess what? You really are going to find some way to mess everything up again just like you have in the past. It is almost as if you are subconsciously intending to screw up your friendships. So you may want to do some soul searching to figure out why this is.
And finally, don't be so hard on yourself, you are human and are entitled to make mistakes AND if your friends truly are your real friends then sooner or later things will work themselves out. Have more faith and you should be fine :)
2007-03-22 12:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may say: All of us make mistakes. So ask him to forget about that and shake hands. It will help you a lot, to increase your willpower, your faith in yourself, yourself-esteem, and to know more about the mysteries of Life. The best questions and answers are in my book: "AWARENESS, The meaning of Life". it will be yours if you ask it to me. You can find me on tomarconciencia at hot mail dot com. It is free of charge and complete in format e-book, so you may send it again by mail as your personal gift dear
2007-03-22 19:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first you need to figure out what it is you're doing that makes you lose friends. as for this one, keep apologizing and hope for the best. if they don't fogive, remember what happened and don't do it again.
2007-03-22 19:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your really sorry and want to be friends again
2007-03-22 19:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by L J P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋