I broke up with my boyfriend cause i thought i didn't like him but i miss him now and i don't know how to fix it
2007-03-22 11:52:16 · 17 answers · asked by baby g 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you can get over him, you can try to get him back, you can get some one else... the possibilites are endless.
2007-03-22 11:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a common feeling after break ups, even for those who initiate it. I can't really say how you are feeling, but it is probably the lack of having someone around who you can talk to/lean on/depend on... Trying to get back together with him might not be the best idea for numerous reasons
1) your initial instincts are probably right (mine tend to be and from what I've seen others as well)
2) he might be hurt or already over it and might not want anything to do with you
3) at best it will make you like silly (bad) for what you did in the first place.
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My recommendation is to try to maintain the friendship with him, with time the two of you might realize that you were better off together. But it seems like you are in Adolescences and it is important to know that early relationships like that almost never work out. It is also a good growing point for you, i'm sure you'l meet other guys who are better for you and at your age its not to bad of an idea to keep your options open and explore (be aware of the double standards that some hold for men and woman...)
2007-03-22 19:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you miss him or just miss having someone? There was a reason why you thought you didn't like him. Why not try to figure that out instead of acting on pure emotion.
2007-03-22 18:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by deniver2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl i've done that a million times with my boyfriend. Talk to him and let him know how you feel. communication is the key in a healthy relationship
2007-03-22 18:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Might Be a Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you idio# welcome to the club.
on the real note. you broke up with him wanting him to beg probably to know how much he has fallen for you. ask yourself how long has it been and why did you test this. then in a few days call him or sooner and tell him you wanted to see how it would be without him but you realize you are 1 so its quite difficult. good luck and if you get him dont do it again. peace.
2007-03-22 18:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tony M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good luck with that.
There must have been a reason why you broke up with him--missing him notwithstanding, try to remember that.
2007-03-22 18:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by shoujomaniac101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have to grovel and beg for him to take you back and then he will always be in control of you. Or else you can forget him and get a new BF.
2007-03-22 18:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
there must have been a reason that you broke up with him in the first place so you prob made the right decision.
2007-03-22 18:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by mummyov2bb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you made a mistake and want to go out again
2007-03-22 21:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by amanda[ILY!] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking with him and explaining yourself, but don't be surprised if he is not interested in you anymore. As they say "Once bitten, twice shy".
2007-03-22 18:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Nanneke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. That's all you can do. Tell him you just want to go slower with the relationship.
2007-03-22 18:56:27 · answer #11 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋