So this is kind of a crazy deal. So lets start from the top. I use to date my ex girlfriend for about a year and a half and when we first started getting sexually active, i couldnt perform (erection). But after a week or so, i was fully there. From then until the end of our relationship our sex life was amazing, we had sex daily. However, just recently we broke up in December and I've tried to move on. I did find a girl i was interested in, we did have sex, but i found the similar issue ( no erection at first). She was a sex craze so she obviously moved on. I was okay with that. But until just recently I met another girl, whom im really falling for. We have been dating for a month now, and going strong. But just recently we've showed interest in sex. A few times I got hard, no problem, but we couldn't have sex cause her parents were home, or mine where, so it was an issue. However, today she came over, and we clearly could of done it and by god i couldn't get hard. Whats the deal?
2007-03-22 11:36:57 · 3 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Do I have ed or something. I dont want this to ruin our relationship, I really like her... but as of right now she doesnt know I have an issue--cause i got hard the other times.
What should I do? Should I tell her about this? I dont want to make things akward.
I'm 19, an athleate, in shape and a good looking guy... this is really bothering me.
2007-03-22 11:37:28 · update #1
Don't stress it. You'll be fine in the end. Once you get comfortable you'll have no trouble rising to the occasion.
-Best wishes for you and your girlfriend
2007-03-22 15:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worrying about it isn't helping you in any way. Just accept the fact that you are a human being and not a machine. There's nothing wrong with you. Sometimes the body just isn't willing to cooperate. ED generally isn't the problem for people your age.
2007-03-22 21:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress, perhaps. Eat healthy, get plenty of sleep, take care of yourself. Consider performance anxiety, as you appear to be very performance centered. You might want to turn that down a notch or two in order to be able to relax enough to enjoy sensual pleasures with your girl.
2007-03-22 21:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by OTTO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋