watches and looks at porn!? I personaly think its disrespectful..but ofcouse..my husband thinks im silly!
He wouldnt care if i liked to look at other naked guys..SO HE SAYS!!
What do u ladies think of porn...
AND are there any guys who think its disrespectful..? or am i looking for a needle in a haystack?
2007-03-22 11:17:38 · 5 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are 100% justified in feeling the way you do. You are not, in any way, looking for a needle in a haystack. In fact, you are right for feeling the way you do. My fiance and I both feel this way about your situation, and would really advise you to talk to him about this. Explain how it makes you feel. Even if he doesn't understand fully, he should respect you enough to stop such a SELFISH habit because it bothers and hurts his real life wife...not his virtual girl friends. Porn teaches your husband to look at girls like objects and to lust after them in a degrading, rather than loving way. When he can't have you, he has them. And when he can't have them, he has you. Sex will soon become about selfish gratification, rather than total giving of ones heart and self. Im not saying you guys don't love each other, but porn in a marriage creates a strain in your relationship, as it already has. You are getting this sense for a reason and you are right for it. That weird feeling that his habit is giving you is the feeling of not being totally and completely loved by your husband. You only show him your body and you don't look at other men's bodies. You would like him to do the same. Just because he is not physically cheating with them, he is still acting out these sexual scenes with these "other" women in his head and NOT YOU! It doesnt mean he is a bad man, it just means that you need to work on some things and believe me, your relationship will only get stronger in love...real love...from here. I will keep you and your husband in my prayers. If you need more answers...check out http://pureloveclub.com/chastity/index.php?id=7&entryid=127.
Good luck and GOD BLESS YOU and your marriage :)
2007-03-23 18:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking at some of those naked guys and see if he likes it.
My wife doesn't like porn so I don't watch it. It isn't the porn just the sorry acting.
2007-03-23 09:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by solow321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like porn and my husband and I enjoy watching it, as long as it isn't something that has to happen to have sex with one another, it can be a nice change to the same old routine.
2007-03-22 20:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his reaction to it and the amount. if its just an occasional thing don't fret over it. if he wants you to watch it with him or he watches it then comes running to you then that is all the better for you.if its not any of those things you both need to have a good talk about it.
2007-03-22 19:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should not do it if it bothers you.
2007-03-22 19:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Blessed 3 times ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋