I don't know i don't know how to do sex i know about it for sure but i don't know how to do it and i'm afraid that this may make my husband nervous and will he ask me for it and how will he ask me and what should i do and which one he will ask me for '' anal or oral '' sex.
Please don't give me a site to see or a book to read please tell me how??
hope you help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 10:33:54 · 2 answers · asked by Nada K 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The ONLY thing that will really make you feel more comfortable about enjoying sex with your husband is TALKING to him about it. It is a wonderful, bonding experience, but you need to recognize it as a learning experience and an opportunity to share your feelings and thoughts with your husband. Talk to him about it before the wedding night. Ask him exactly what his expectations are, and try to sort out what yours are. It may be awkward; it may be uncomfortable, but don't worry -- it gets better with time! Just take it slow, relax (maybe put on some romantic music and give each other massages first!), and communicate!
Good luck!
2007-03-22 12:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, sex a most natural thing! You are about to enter into a life time contract. You will be sharing everything now with your partner and that includes your body. You should get to know his body and that part that he will share only with you. On your wedding night do some exploring, Feel it touch it and yes taste it. The tip of a mans penises is the most sensitive and with soft light rubbing of this area will arouse your mate. When your comfortable, use the tip of your tougng to stimulate this area while creating a vacuam with your mouth. This will drive him crazy in a good way. As for anal, there is a big difference betweel the front door and the back door.Should he want to go there, this will take time. Lots of for play is a must!!! A finger rubbing around the anal opening is a good way to start. (well lubed} folowed by a second finger. A small toy (well lubed) inserted with slow in and out motions will help. There are lots of nerve endings in there that you will find very arousing. While doing this have him rub your clit gently. When your ready for penatration lay on your side and bring your legs up to your brests, now (rember lube?) as if your braking wind, let him enter SLOWLY!!!! STOP !!!!! AND GO SLOWLY!!!! let him ease in there slowly!!! Quit frankly it will be a bit uncomfortable for the first few miniouts but by going slowly and lots of fore play this can be a plesure you will both njoy for the years to come.
2007-03-23 02:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by Boston Mark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋