my boyfriends mother died what do i do how do i go about this
2007-03-22 10:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by miss_richness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell your boyfriend that you are very sorry that his mother passed away and if there is anything that you can do to help him out you will.
2007-03-22 10:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to just be there for them. Your boyfriend will need to express how he feels. He will go throught many different stages of grief. You need tons of support from people even if you don't think that you do. Your boyfriend will be able to tell how sorry you are without saying a word. Give him my sympathy. The loss of a loved one is great but taking one day at a time is the easiest that I found. Also, having someone to talk to when you need to.
2007-03-22 17:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend needs his space for a bit, tell him that your their for him if he needs you,do things for him, cook dinner,laundry,clean his home, just be around him but don't smoother him. after a few days he will know that you are their for him. everybody deals with a death in different ways. the mail thing is not to smoother him.
2007-03-22 17:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hugs always work...say you're very sorry for his loss and let him deal with his grief the way he needs to. if he wants to talk to you, then listen. he wants space, let him have it. the important thing is you let him know you are there for him whenever he needs you.
2007-03-22 17:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them how sorry you are for their lost and be there for them as long as they need you even weeks down the road.
2007-03-22 17:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your presence is enough, because there is nothing else that you can really do.
2007-03-22 17:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋