how can u exsplain to people that ur not attracted to EVEYONE? cause some girls in my school kno im bi, and there like well i cant changed by her cause shes bi and has a crush on me. how do i exsplain that its not ever sigal woman i see?
2007-03-22 10:15:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I wouldnt even waste my breathe... you cant explain things like this to people- they wouldnt understand. Just move on with you life and dont let those girls bring you down... when they get a little older they will realize how childish and immature they were being.
2007-03-22 10:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, these don't sound like fascinatingly intelligent girls, so actually fostering a conversation with them, might be somewhat unfeasible. However, if by some natural phenomenon you're able to strike up a reasonably intellectual discourse with them, you should let them know that, just like them, you have your particular tastes and preferences. And as such, you probably aren't terribly attracted to girls or guys who aren't exactly fond of you -- which, in this instance, it sounds like they aren't.
Then, if you're so inclined, you should illuminate from them the fact that 'bisexuality' does not invariably equal 'a voracious and uncontrollable lust for all humans'. In fact, it's quite the opposite -- one could argue that true bisexuals exhibit the utmost sexual discipline, in that the are able to recognize their love for both sexes while simultaneously managing to channel that love in one direction at a time!
It's nothing to be frightened of, really. If [these girls] are confident in their own sexuality, then befriending someone of their same sex, with a different sexual-orientation, shouldn't be a hassle at all. Unless, of course, they aren't comfortable with their own sexuality ... but I suppose that's a wholly different matter.
Don't waste too much of your breath, though. Explain what you can, and then continue living your life the way in which you're most comfortable. And try to remember, at the very least, it would behoove them to befriend you ... not the other way around.
Take care, bud.
2007-03-22 18:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gold W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so funny how girls in high school can be. When I came out as a lesbian, I lost a lot of friends, as they assumed that since I was a lesbian, I must be secretly trying to get in their pants. Now, some of them are trying to get into my pants, and not so secretly. Just ignore them, and when they come to you 5 or 6 years down the line, tell them that, as you weren't in high school, you still aren't attracted to them. The best revenge is living a good life, forget them.
2007-03-22 17:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by jjspike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People just need to get over themselves because it is true I am a bi too and I am not attracted to every single girl I see....right now I don't even try looking at other girls because the girl I am with I plan on being with forever.....I wouldn't worry about those girls they need to get over themselve you know what I mean.......Some people are just too stuck up and only think about themselves..
2007-03-22 17:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by aerogrl872000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ignore them because see i am bi and i dont see anything wrong with it just be yourself and dont worry about what other people say look if you want to get to know me more then my email address is sexy_miss_new_booty_08 k well maybe we both can get to know each other better if you dont have a gurl.
2007-03-23 10:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by CHICK-A-BOO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus simpli ignore it, i just told ppls im bi cause i lost som 1 veri dear to me that was indeed mi childhood gf, so now in mi gym class everi chick ther waits for me to go into the showers to change and while im changin they will change as quickli as they can so that i dont see them, and they are all prisses, mi advice, jus walk up to them and say "dont wrry, ur too ugly and too prissi to be mi type" they'll get a kick out of that
2007-03-22 18:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by shanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there isn't even a band-aid fix for this one. Some people are just shallow and ignorant.
2007-03-22 18:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by IamBatman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not just ignorant, they are plain stupid...
Just try and have patience and move on with your life..
Bi girls are hot...
2007-03-22 18:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell them I'm not attracted to arrogant, self-centered whor es
2007-03-22 17:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to try to explain because people will believe what they want regardless.
2007-03-22 18:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Grrr! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋