do you husband help you around the house?
if so or you happy with his work in the house if even if its not the same way you would leave it?
2007-03-22 10:11:16 · 41 answers · asked by colochi79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes my husband does help. I cook dinner for him 5 nights a week, he does the dishes. We both do the household chores together, laundry together, etc. Yes he is a neat person, I am happy with the way he cleans and takes care of our things.
2007-03-22 11:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my husband does pitch in around the house. Its not an every day thing but he still help. The way that I look at it is that he is doing me a favor and I appreciate the help. There is no one right way to clean and I choose to over look the fact that its "not perfect" and enjoy the extra time off that he has given me. The same cleaning will need done tomorrow or the next day so who really cares if its the way I do it today - I'll get to it tomorrow.
2007-03-22 10:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by kkay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband works alot, so I don't expect him to do much. But I do like help sometimes or just a little more than that. :) I hate to clean. I would rather spend my time doing something else. NE way when he does help, Yes I am happy with the work even if its not the same as how I do it. But, if the mess or whatever it is he did to help is worse off. I definitaly let him know about it. He tried right??
2007-03-22 10:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Consi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband helps you around the house don't b i c t h . He not you and he's not going to clean just like you. He not a kid who you have to teach. One thing a man hates is a nagging wife.Be happy he is doing something. Read the proper care of a marriage by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger and the proper care of husbands. In the book you will find a lot of nagging women and good husbands that can't take it anymore. Get right or you could lose him and never thing for one moment that will never happen to you.
2007-03-22 10:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband helps a lot now(we've been married for 14 years and have 3 children) When we were first married I did all the housework except vacuuming. Now we do whatever needs to get done and sometimes he does and sometimes I do, it is just whoever gets to it first.
It took me a long time to just let him do things his way but as soon as I stopped bugging him about the way I thought it should be done he started helping out a lot more.
The only thing I still obsess about is the dishwasher, No one can fill it but me and if they do I rearrange it before I wash the dishes.
2007-03-22 10:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't really do housework. And it's okay! He is the sole breadwinner in our family. I concentrate on making the home beautiful and nice for him and the family and doing the support stuff. It's okay to do this!
And no, when he helps out, I do leave it that way until it gets messed up next time. How ungrateful would I seem if I was correcting him every few minutes.
2007-03-22 10:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I both work full time, plus I am a musician so I gig at night. He cooks, cleans, does laundry and so do I. He is wonderful and considerate and always does a great job at everything. And if it's not the way I would have done it I don't care because I can always do it myself. I am very thankful he is the man he is.
2007-03-22 10:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by stephyhall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband helps me with a lot of things, but not the dishes. He dislikes washing dishes. I don't complain when he does things and thank him encouraging him to continue assisting me, which he does. I dont expect too much since I am home daily and even though I work from home, I dont really like to put pressure on him to do much after a long day at work. We he figured out what we do best to help one another and thats what we do. i dont complain if its not perfect. Im just glad that he helps me.
2007-03-22 10:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my husband helps around the house. he cleans the bathroom & kitchen better than I do. I'm not concerned if he doesnt do everything the same as I would. The point is - it's done!
2007-03-22 10:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do all the work in the house and take care of the kids without his help. Its frustrating and tiresome and I would sure appreciate a little help from time time. So I would be happy with any help he offered whether it was done the same way I do it or not.
2007-03-22 10:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by sapphireblaze 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋