There are some people who may not be very goodlooking, it doesn't seem fair that them being happy in life depends on how they happen to appear to others, no one can help it really, if they have a huge nose, or deformed face or something. I mean they are missing out in love and marriage and possibly children. I just don't find it easy enough to believe that there's a god, this has really made me think about going for girls who may not be beautiful but naturally i really want to marry a beautiful woman, i'm only 16 yet. If this is our one life than those who are "ugly" may miss out in love/marriage because of the way they have formed. They can't help it.
Some may be happy without all this.
2007-03-22 10:07:57 · 16 answers · asked by john c 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Quite possibly. But that was why alcohol was invented.
So ugly people could get a shag too..!
2007-03-22 10:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
First of all beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What might be attractive to someone might not be to someon else and what someone finds as "ugly" another person can find it to be beautiful. When it comes to love and marriage and children it has nothing to do with looks, trust me! I've seeb "ugly" people end up with "beautiful" ones, happens all the time, when people look for a wife or husband they don't look for an attractive blond or someone who has a beutiful smile. Theres a lot more to life. When your young you think is all about looks. Am 22 and I know is not all about looks. I rather have someone who I can have relationship with, (talk to, relate to, cared about me..blah blah) than having someone who is just "beautiful" Cheer up! There's so many people out there am sure one day you will find happiness with someone...your only 16 don't worry about that now...I wish I was 16 again.....
2007-03-22 10:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by theguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is somebody for everybody.
Some of the ugliest men marry the most beautiful
women, and not very pretty women get the handsomest
men.
Looks are just a small part of the whole person. What you are "Inside" is more important.
Besides, Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
2007-03-22 10:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Ever met a girl that was beautiful on the outside, but her nasty attitude made her seem ugly? Same thing goes for people you may not find attractive physically, you get to know them and they turn into the most beautiful person you've ever met. Don't judge a book by it's cover, you may miss a real gem!
2007-03-22 10:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by wish I were 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're only 16. You will learn one day that true loe has absolutely nothing to do with physical looks. A person who is in "love" with another's looks is not really in love. When you fall in love, the person's physical faults become not repulsive but cute. Being attracted physicallyto the person is a plus, and it helps get you close enough to learn more about the person, but true love is inside, not outside.
"Ugly" may deter some people from getting closer to a person tolearn his or her true character, and when a person alows himself to be so shallow as to avoid an "ugly" or less attractive perosn, he is losing out - and may miss out on the person who can make him happier than anyone else in the world.
2007-03-22 10:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, i'm 16 too and i do believe there is a God. Some people have harder lives than others because of their looks. We don't know for sure why God made them look that way but he has a purpose for everything. Beautiful people don't always find love either. I, for one, don't think i'm really that bad looking but i'm extremely quiet. I haven't found anyone who even cares about me, other than my family of course. People that base their attraction soley on looks are totally shallow and superficial. That really annoys me.
2007-03-22 10:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by flippingpeep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How shallow. There are plenty of people that get to know the real you not the look of a person. I would much rather be with someone who has a great personality and is kind and gentle and strong. Than a person with good looks. I look to the person within not what that person looks like. And also you don't have to be pretty to have love, fun, and happiness. Not everyone is as shallow as you.
2007-03-22 10:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by beyondthelimit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People pair off, most of them, anyway, regardless. You can look at the question differently, and consider how many good-looking people have it too easy with members of the opposite sex, and miss out on the learning experiences that average-looking and less-than-average people have to go through. There are plenty of really good-looking people out there who are as shallow as tinfoil, and who never learn how to rely on other, more truly valuable assets, like intelligence, compassion, etc. As the less good-looking learn to live with their lack of superficial assets, many learn that there's more to life than superficialities, and live their lives oriented toward things of real value, and pair off with others who understand what's valuable.
2007-03-22 10:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by G-zilla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you look has nothing to do with finding love. I'm average, my best friend, beautiful. I'm married 10 years, she's still single. Why? I found my husband early while she is picky as can be and won't "settle". To tell the truth, most men leave her because she is too demanding.
2007-03-22 10:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by mel m 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nature isn't fair. Only what attracts the opposite sex reproduces.
Quite often the external mirrors the internal. Ugly people are often ugly through and through. More easily visible as they get older, since their inner personality percolates to the outside. So, beware! ;-)
2007-03-22 10:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i don;t care if they have anything wrong with them. You find that the good looking ones are a** holes!! It'snot what on the outside but on the inside and it's about time that this world got uded to that. And i don't care what they look like aslong as they are loveing and caring
2007-03-22 10:13:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋