He hasn't said it, but I know it's true. Is there anything I can do?
2007-03-22 09:50:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's the one that would be able to tell you that.
2007-03-22 09:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is something you can do. Go get your hair done or your own personal makeover. Get some new outfits and act as happy as you have ever been. Go out on the town and show him that YOU love yourself anyway. (sometimes a person's low self-esteem is what is having the affect on the other partner) if you don't love yourself-how can you fully love someone else. And this will rub off on your husband. The fact that you said he hasn't said it, 'but you know it's true.' this says it all, my dear. Have a little more confidence in yourself. Let him see you do this. Add a little flair to your lifestyle.
2007-03-22 17:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he does not like you anymore? Have you put on some weight? Get rid of it.Do you have children and they are now the center of your world?Shove them aside!
What did he see in you when he asked you to marry him? Do you still have that spark? Are you still romantic? Do you wear your hair unkempt and are you wearing dresses that hide your figure and instead make you look like a sack of cabbages.? You can change if you set your mind to the task and if you love your husband enough. He probably has a beer belly and wears an untidy beard, if you think he's worth fighting for go girl and take no prisoners.
2007-03-22 17:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by jokimben_el 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't said it then you don't know anything but what you feel. He may be attracted to you but have issues about something else in the marriage. Better sit down and talk to him.
2007-03-22 20:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd probably be surprised and find out that it isn't true.
There are plenty of reasons spouse's ignore each other. I bet you you are still attractive to him.
2007-03-22 16:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Disco Stu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you allowed yourself to go to hell in a handbasket? Sounds like that's the problem. Maybe you need t use this as motivation, put down the cheetos and twinkies and start working out.
2007-03-22 17:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a complete makeover and get your hair done... You may even want to go buy some nice new clothes that look good on you to draw his attention and his eyes to you.
2007-03-22 18:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go through all kinds of phases with marriage. maybe he's had a rough time at his job, and he's taking it out on you because he cant focus.
2007-03-22 16:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your fat lose weight if your slim gain some dress nice in warm weather wear nice shorts nice blouses or halters if you work ware nice skirts and blouses or pantsuits and heels or nice flats nice under clothes perfume
2007-03-26 16:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you will have to ask him. Over dinner tonight (when the kids are not around), before bed, in bed, when ever, simply ask him.
2007-03-22 17:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try asking him to tell you for sure and them maybe you all should try some marriage counseling
2007-03-22 16:54:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋