okay so my period started the first of march and ended on the 14th but then today [3/22/07] it started again and it hurt s freaking bad that i want to crawl into the fetal position but i never told my mom last year that i started my period in april because i'm afraid what should i do?help!!
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2007-03-22 09:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by silly_rabbit_trixx_r4_kids 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you need to tell your mom this could be serious!
i didn't tell my mom right away either but it is so much better now i did
2007-03-22 09:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom Sweetheart. This is the very special bond that Moms and daughters should share.... Mom probably already knows :o) and has been waiting for you to make the first move...
The period coming close together is really nothing that should concern you. This happens all the time when girls are just starting their periods and it can take as long as a year for your cycle to regulated. The pain you are feeling I would betcha is simply menstrual cramps not unusual either... Some women have them all their life others after the have a baby the first baby disappear like magic... I would recommend a hot heat wrap or heating pad on your lower tummy / back , and some Midol. You should be good to go by tomorrow...
2007-03-22 17:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by double_klicks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal to get irregular periods when you first start to menstruate until hormones settle down but that is very close in duration. You really do need to talk to your Mum. She can offer you some advice and comfort that I think you need. It might be that your Mum had irregular periods at the onset of menstruation. You really need to talk to her. Don't be shy. I am sure your Mum would be happy to comfort you and offer you help. It sounds like you need something for the cramps also. You could try raspberry leaf tea or tablets and that should help. Also camomile tea is another excellent herb that really does help (from my experience) but many others take the raspberry leaf tea. Raspberry leaf is full of anti-spasmodic (anti-cramp) minerals. Camomile has other substances (as yet unknown I think) that calm crampy muscles. Take a brave step - go tell your Mum. Get yourself a hot water bottle for your tummy area also - really helps. Best wishes.
2007-03-22 16:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥zene purrs♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your mom or an adult who can help and have them help you make a gyno appointment!! If you are sexually active then you need to tell the doctor that(you can let it be a secrete with you and your doctor but DO NOT lie to the doc!!!!! It is important he know!).... you can also go to family planning for complete secrecy.. but I don't understand why you would be afraid to tell your mom about your period? She has one! every woman gets one eventually! Nothing to be afraid of!
2007-03-22 16:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ PrincessLeia ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you afraid to talk to your mom? You're 14 and this is the person who should be helping you, not a bunch of strangers on the net!!
2007-03-22 16:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell your mom becuase she can't get mad at you,your a girl becoming a women and maybe it's your april period,startin in march and ending in april
2007-03-22 16:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by 129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to mom honey something could be wrong or maybe your just not regular yet and need a med to get you there.
2007-03-22 16:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by SANDI P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my mom by putting a note on her work area ar somewher she would notice ITS OK TO TELL HER! she wont like kill you.she knows how you feel. if you have an older sister it would be better to tell her than your mom if your scared. BUT GO AHEAD SHE IS YOUR MOM!
she will help you ALOT!
ok well idk
take my advice ! trust me!
well hope you get better
2007-03-22 16:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe is just that your not regular. you might want to tell your mom since she's been through it and maybe check with a doctor if is that bad.
2007-03-22 16:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋