i have a brother in law that is gay. he's funny, a social butterfly, fun to be around etc. i watch a lot of will and grace and feel like i want a gay man for my best friend. so if there are any gay men out there will to answer this question... do gay men mostly only hang around aother gay men, or do they have a lot of girl friends? or are there still down falls to being friends with women? like competion and cattiness like girls? i love hanging out with the guys because girls are stupid most of the time. so i thought a gay man would be a womans best friend. true or false?
2007-03-22 09:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by laura t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Being a gay man.. I wouldn't trade my girls for anything in the world... don't get me wrong, I have some awesome straight male friends that are the best in the world, but I can't exactly talk about the "intimate" details with them.
Gay men don't necessarily hang around with other gay men exclusively. There isn't cattiness among the gay man/straight woman relationship.... you honestly compliment one another, from my experience. You can be completely candid, open and honest with one another and its a wonderful relationship that is forged from it!
So by all means sweetie, go and grab up your brother in law and have a blast!
2007-03-22 18:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are great... but don't fall into the trap of being a HAG.
(because if you do, we will have a great time until I meet someone, then you will sit at home and eat ice cream while I am out with my new love. OR.... you will get drunk one night and hit on me, and I might even make out with you, but I will laugh irrationally when you undress.... OR..... you will finally meet a nice guy who is into you, and not a felon. We will all have lunch together, and I will call you 1 hour latter and tell you to dump him.) FRIEND is a great job. HAG is a terrible one!
2007-03-22 18:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us gay men are social butterfly's and not all of us hang out with women to be their best Friend. However, some do.
2007-03-22 16:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a girl I have lots of girl friends and gay other friends I hang with who I wont to hang out with...
I dosent matter
2007-03-22 16:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, I'd say my friends are 60% girls, 48% straight guys and 2% gay/bi guys if that's what you want? Most gays guys hang with girls, but that doesn't mean they only hang around girls... I mean, like, generally most girly guys that hang with girls are like the girls that you say are usually stupid so it's like the same thing... hope that helps
P.S. emphasis on words like MOST and USUALLY
2007-03-22 16:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by jedilounge1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some straight women friends who feel comfortable to have a man around who is not wanting to get in their pants...unfortunatly for a couple of others they want me in their pants and that has caused a few problems, rejection is never a good feeling.
I keep friends that have respect for themselves and for me...not just because they are a certain gender or sexuality.
2007-03-22 16:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by universatile love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you. If your a guy who says "Eww" everytime some one mentions the prospect of two guys kissing, then gay guys wont want you, but if you're fun to be around, why not? They dont stick with just one group of people.
2007-03-22 16:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by chrisinrush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys don't hang around girls...it is the other way around. That way the girl feels safe while syill having a man around
2007-03-22 16:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by ryee40007 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're applying to be a F*ag-hag?
Don't get me wrong, I have never thought of the term to be dirogitory or insulting, heck even as a bisexual (leaning lesbian) I have called myself that for years!
Well, congrats...a gay man will be your best friend...but a word of caution, don't piss him off or he can and will be your worst enemy!
2007-03-22 16:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your gay brother-in-law than you must have a gay brother. Why don't you ask him instead. If he's your husband's brother, than your husband is probably gay. If a guy has a gay brother the gayness usually spreads to the other males in the household.
2007-03-22 16:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋