My friend is really bratty, thinks people are sore losers, she 's bossy, and copy's off my homework and tests. She also thinks only of herself and nothing else. She always lies and says she has things that she really doesn't have and blames things on other people and talks about them behind their back. Another thing is she thinks she can do things that she really can't do just to brag and show it off. And she brings her new, cool sometimes one-of-a-kind items to school just to brag and show everyone what she has and what they don't have. She can't respect other peoples' properties and she steals things that she wants even though I may not let her have it. She thinks she is the queen of the world and that we all should bow down to her. She steals boyfriends and cheats on them or goes out with them for 1 day to a week then dumps them. When we play pretend games she always talks about sexual things and always makes herself look better. She is a spoiled,good-for-nothing,self-thinking brat.
2007-03-22 09:30:47 · 17 answers · asked by KrazeeBunny93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, you're super nice for actually being her friend. Although she may think that she is better than everyone else, she probably only feels that power because she has you. I'm unaware if she has any other friends, but if she doesn't, I can see why. You should really tell her how she is, maybe it might bring her self-esteem lower and she might come to her senses and change. On the other hand, she could say that you're not worth her time and that you're wrong, when really she is wrong. At least you tried to tell her, and more people will probably respect you for actually stepping up to her, because by the sound of it, no one has told her anything. If she isn't your friend anymore, so be it, she's better off alone to realize that people don't respect her for who she is and what she promotes. You will have a better time hanging out with your real friends anyway. It's a win win situation :) whether she leaves or she doesn't. Good luck :D
2007-03-22 11:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by ANGIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understand these sorts of posts. Why are you friends with her? What do you do, sit there and talk nice to her and then come on the internet and trash her behind her back? Does that sound like you're being a very good friend to her? Before you spend anymore time thinking of more names to call her, remember this. You are responsible for how you treat people and you are responsible for who you spend time with.
2007-03-22 09:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by leaptad 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't realise how bad she is being. Confront her about it and if she doesn't make an effort for you then she isn't really worth being your friend. If you stop being her friend, it may not be the end of your friendship. She might come to her senses and realise she can't treat people like she has been and change her ways. Good Luck!
2007-03-22 09:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by lebubblelicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rrruuuuunnn!?!... If she truly is your friend NONE of the things you mentioned should be happening. If you are with her for the "status" it gives you beware; you might end up just being like her.
If you really are done dealing with her attitude let her know that you'll be taking some space from her and that you want to meet new friends (good one's!).
Who knows, maybe she realizes the kind of person that she is becoming and will want to change.
Take care of yourself and sucess!
2007-03-22 09:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should think about it this way....something is wrong with your friend. She may have self-esteem issues or just issues in her life. She's trying to make herself seem important and all that when deep down she's miserable and she tries to make others feel miserable too.
2007-03-22 09:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were down in the dirt and nobody would help you, would she? If she would leave you just like the crowd would, than she is not your friend. Trust me later in life(after high school) you will learn that you need positive people in your life.
2007-03-22 09:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by jules27 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why in god's name are you still friends with her?
She's obviously a very sad insecure young lady who need's to be centre of attention.
Remove yourself from her company and dont let her drag you down!
2007-03-22 10:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..........you do have a problem.......i think that your friend isn't really your friend if this is really how she is because it sounds like she is just using you so that she can get what she wants and i think that you should tell her that is not what you are there for and if she doesn't respect that or doesnt understand that then she isn't a true friend
2007-03-22 09:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
now think a moment. i think u kinda answered u're own question there. but i was recently in a similar situation. one of my guy friends was being a total jerk. i dis-owned him as a friend, and he kept spewing my secrets and making crap up. well, i tutor some kids in math. one of the hardest working, but slowest learners is bubba. 6.4 and pretty strong. well i tell this guy friend wat a jerk he is and he slaps me! and bubba comes out of nowhere and decks him. i mean, 1 punch and he is down. so much fun, lol.
2007-03-22 09:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by lily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look up the word friend in the dictionary - neither of you know what it means
2007-03-22 09:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Here's Lulu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋