i want my ex back, but have my doubts?

Question

hi everyone, me and my boyfriend broke up at the beginning of december and at the weekend after 4 months we saw each other and saw his son. we have been together for seven years and have realised we really still each other. I can see a huge change in him in those four months and really believe that he has changed, hes a much nicer person and such a better father to my little boy. I feel he has realised what he has lost due to living with his family which arnt too great and supportive. We have broke up once before, but feel if we live apart and he proves himself we could be a family again . My son would love that, has anybody been in a similar situation where you have been reunited and they have changed ? thanks guys xx

no it wasnt me GREG who needed to change he had a few issues so until you know what happened, i dont want your stupid answers....... thanks !!

thanks to the people who are leaving mature answers xx

excuse me you dont know what happened ! and yes my ex was the culprit for not sticking a job... like i did !! among other things when he has a family to support and spending the money uselessly, ! but i suppose i had to work for him did i let him spend the money ?? no i dont think so ... and it was mainly your answer that were doomed.... you psychic now ??

Answer 1

Sometimes getting back with an ex can either be really great or confirm why you broke up to start with. I say follow your heart and you'll know if it's right or not. There are too many avenues to go with since since we don't know how your relationship was before. Best Wishes!

Answer 2

Have you changed? You didn't breakup because one of you was screwed up: you both were.

I'm guessing this is doomed.

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Sorry lady. It takes two to have a dysfunctional relationship. Healthy people don't get into unhealthy relationships with unhealthy people.

Heal thyself. You're still in denial.

Answer 3

Try to get together. People do change.
If not, get him out quick.