I'm not saying all...most that I've come across don't find it a problem but there's always a few that will shoot you funny looks or hate on you...just dumb stuff. Why is this? I don't care when black women date white men so why is this different? Again, I'm not saying all feel this way. Just a few. So, yeah. Thoughts?
2007-03-22 08:56:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
500th time this question was asked.
Anyway...
I've never minded myself considering I've dated men of other races myself and am engaged to a white man now.
Here's why it bothers some black women:
For the black women who believe they just HAVE to marry a black man, they believe that it's difficult to find a good, kind, successful black man. They think that all the good, kind, and successful black men turn to white women to better their status, thus leaving successful black women with thug, gangsta, moronic black men.
Not to mention the fact that white women are the standard of beauty in this society and black women feel that they can't compete with them, and they are upset when black men find white women more attractive than them.
My solution to this problem: Black women who feel this way need to:
1) Expand their horizons. You don't have to marry a black man.
2) Stop searching for a dangerous man because it's impossible to find a dangerous man who's also successful.
3) Get some goddamm business of your own. Who cares if X black guy is dating a white woman? Either way, he's not with you!
/rant
2007-03-22 09:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 2⤋
I guess they feel that the black guy finds the white woman more attractive than her. Black men are less picky about what they find attractive, i have been out with white and Asian women and in no way did i feel that white and Asian women were better than black women. I love black women and always will.
2007-03-22 14:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by *Diamonds* 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
LOL! Ok im not laughing at your question, but some of these answers are HILLARIOUS!! Anyway, to answer you, you stated it correctly when you said "not all". Because I, for one, couldn't give two s.hits less about seeing a black man with a white women, or a white man with a black woman. Dont care. If its not relating to ME in anyway, why should i stress over it? And i date em all. Black, Puerto Rican, White. If you look good AND you respect me, AND you have goals in your life....I'm all for it.
LOL. Im still laughing at Curlycute's answer.....
2007-03-22 09:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
They feel as though there is a shortage of good black men and the few that are left are with white women.
2007-03-22 09:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Olive 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I say don't get mad get even! but anyway, everybody is entitled to go out with whoever they want. Back in slavery days a black man couldn't look much less to date a white woman, so i guess now they are making up for lost time.
2007-03-22 14:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.T.Rios 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The anger comes from the fact that they see the white women as taking the most prosperous and successful black men.
2007-03-22 08:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Issues. Simple as.
Some feel its a sign of betrayal. Others feel that it means black women are unworthy. And some are just plain C- razy - watch out for these ones.
It comes in every race...issues.
2007-03-22 09:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Same reason some white women get mad when a white man dates a black girl...
I'm always getting "cut eye" from them whenever I'm with my bf (except the ones who happen to be in interracial relationships themselves. then all of a sudden they act like we are kindred spirits or something! LOL)......
I find it amusing.
2007-03-22 16:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by venom! 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well white men get upset when white women date black guys.......I don't think one side is any worse than the other.
2007-03-22 08:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I'm a black woman and I don't get mad. I just date your white men! Hey fair is fair! And here in the North sweetie it's being done all the time! White men love black women in the North! Hello!
You get the broke one with the long stick.
I get the rich one with the short stick.
But guess what? I get an 0rgasm shopping! There is more to life besides getting laid! And yes Miss Thing........Diamonds are a girls best friend!
2007-03-22 09:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 5⤋