It is wrong for two girls to shower and sleep together.?
Me and my best friend (we are 14) spent the night at my house a lot. Since we were little kids we showered together, dressed together, swam naked together in my pool and slept in the same bed with each other. Recetly I told another friend about this and she told me it was immoral and we were gay. i am not gay I date guys all the time and i was had sex three times. But is it wrong for me and my best friend to shower together, skinny dip, and sleep together. Were friends not lovers. Is it wrong?
2007-03-22 08:49:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I figure by asking in adolecense it will gain more answers.
2007-03-22 08:50:01 · update #1
Like I said before me and my friends used to do it.
2007-03-22 09:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Martin A Neville 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This whole question depends on how your friend feels about you... it is a two way street. If your friend has feelings for you than to her this experience is different in her mind, and yet to you it is harmless. Women do not think the way that men do. To us, showering together doesn't mean anything it is a quick way to get things done. All I can say is talk to your friend and see what she says about it. If she shares your thinking then there is nothing wrong with it. If she sees this as something different you need to sit down and have a talk with her.
2007-03-22 10:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon's Gothic Wench 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing WRONG with it. You and your best friend have been doing this since kids and there has been no problem with it. Your friends laugh not because you two are gay, but they feel that it is very odd to shower and sleep together at 14. You two might be somewhat too old for that.
2007-03-22 08:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok. I am 14 too and YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX!!! From what it sounds like, people at your school have labeled you as a no-so-nice name.
When my friends spend the night we sleep in the same bed...but we have clothes on (you didn't say if you did).
We don't shower or swim naked together...that's just gross. I would never do it. It's all fine when you are a child but you are teenagers and too old to be doing that. And please stop having sex until you are married. You don't want to end up with a child do you?
2007-03-22 10:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by em<3 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My sister and I slept in the same bed until I was 16, after that we each had our own bedroom. We showered together until she reached adolescence. I don't know about the skinny dipping... there are alot of perverts out there.
By the way, I don't think you should be having sex at 14. That is the freaky part of your question --not the rest.
2007-03-22 09:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by dimplez 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Nope, at all!
Friendship goes beyond such pettiness!
Tell me some right and good reason why two friends oughtn't to share bed and shower too! Morality? Even if they are gay there is no wickedness about because sex and sexuality as like as nudity is an immoral thing!
2007-03-22 10:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it does seem akward to all of us..but if that is how you 2 have always been.. then it shouldn't matter to anyone but you and your friend. You both know that you are not attracted to each other in a sexual way and that is all that matters. What do your parents think about it? I had a friend who did not have a problem with being nude all the time around her friends and we were all in high school at the time. I really did seem to care at the time either.. now as we are older it does seem "weird". But when you are young things aren't as complex. Good luck.
2007-03-22 09:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you're little, it's fine, but as you get older, it's not as appropriate to do things naked together. I did though, sleep in the same bed as my friends for sleep overs (with clothes on) throughout high school. I would say that you're too young to be having sex. I know it sounds lame, but it is so worth it to stop now, and wait until you're married to do it again. Really, that is one decision you won't regret.
2007-03-22 09:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't think its wrong and I'm not gay or anything. My friends and I sleep in the same bed if there's no where else to sleep.
2007-03-22 12:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's definately not wrong. It all depends on society's perception of what you do. Some people may argue that you might as well be lovers, but there are no rules regarding what friends can and can't do. It really is just what feels right to *you*. Don't care about what other people think, just enjoy your friendship.
P.s. don't worry about people telling you that you're too young to have sex. Anytime after puberty is okay :)
2007-03-22 09:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
not really i mean come on you were little and inocent me and my sister shower and sleep together all the time and sometime my friends and i sleep in the same bed. its comeletely fine and if she calls you gay shes not your friend. dont worry about what she thinks you were little its ok
2007-03-22 10:14:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋