I'll tell you more. She is always sitting on his lap at our house and very very very flirtatious with him. Tells my wife how hot her son is all of the time. My wife tells her don't even think about it but she still flirts and is like a teenaged girl around our son. My question is do you think that a sexy woman like this that has the hots for her friends son will cross the line and seduce him? We don't know what is going on away from our house but she assures that she is just playing. We are not so sure about that. Without hiring a PI I don't guess we will know will we?
2007-03-22 08:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think she will if she gets the chance.
2007-03-22 08:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he's an adult and if you taught him how to make decisions properly, this is a null question.
Second of all, who cares?
Honestly, unless she has some sort of disease or either one of them is under the delusion that this is the one relationship he'll be in his entire life, they would both likely come out ahead. Her, well, for self esteem reasons. Him, he'd probably delay getting seriously involved with a potential wife until he's a bit further along in his education or job earnings and have a few more options when it comes to picking a wife. He's also more likely to have a more realistic view of what he might want in a wife and have fewer issues with his future wife as she ages.
He will also likely learn how to successfully end a relationship that he wants out of and gain a keener appreciation of the differences between women at different ages.
Now, whether you decide to stay friends with this woman if anything should happen or support your son if he doesn't make the choice you obviously want him to is up to you.
What I'd suggest, as long as everything's legal and no one's got some weird disease, is let him (and her) make their own decisions. Offer advice to your son if he asks, primarily focusing on advantages and disadvantages of each course of action, and generally be available to him.
2007-03-22 08:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew 3 men, all different circumstances that were seduced by a friend of a divorced mother, all three said it was a great time. Their Moms never knew about it, the guys were 19 and the women were in their mid 30s, late 30s. Older women, younger man, sex, sex. She will seduce him if he wants her to, he will send out vibes if he is attracted back to her. It is up to you to communicate your feelings to her, how will this affect your friendship with her?, if it is something that would offend you, you should tell her, so she will not to cross that line. Good luck, lets hope his hormones don't get the best of him, buy a box of condoms, leave it in his room just in case.
2007-03-22 08:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he has already hit that. Probably has been hittin it if she is all over his lap in your house. That told me all i needed to know.
Really the only problem would be if she ended up pregnant. Outside of that, your son will be well trained when he settles down with a woman his age.
2007-03-22 08:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a sick friend who was in her thirties and knocking boots with an 18 year old, if given the chance people like that dont care about age, take a look at all of these school teachers, get rid of the friend, your childs life will be ruined if you dont. Trust me, it would have an effect on him, not a good one.
2007-03-22 08:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rosiebud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you gotta do is this. Invite the hoe over when your son is not going to be home. But when he's out with his friends. Promise that woman a nice pine box! I bet she leaves your son alone! I had a friend who did this to my son. I promised her one. No one in the family ever heard from her again! LOL
2007-03-22 08:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should divorce your bigot of a wife. She should be in jail for strangling Bob. I'll side with a gay son instead of a b***h who is legaly culpable for attempted MURDER.
2016-03-28 23:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at this from two perspectives; as a male and as an 18 year old getting flirted with by a hottie. I doubt his brakes are that good, if he even hits them.... trust your instincts, "just playing" my a**
2007-03-22 11:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
News flash: Your 18 year old son is an adult. If he chooses to be intimate with this woman, it's his choice. however, YOU should've instilled values in you son so he'd have decent morals and not be interested in premarital sex. If he gets involved with her, it's on you just as much as her.
2007-03-22 09:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't already, she soon will I bet. It's a Mrs. Robinson situation, younger man, an older woman plus it sounds like she's making it very difficult for him NOT to want to nail her. Just talk to him first.
2007-03-22 10:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by mcbobly2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your son to hit that free a s s. it's an experience... and it might be possible she might go out of her way to get with your son for a quick teenage bang. disgusting.
2007-03-22 08:41:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋