have to settle for older women? somebody handpicked? i have borderline personality disorder and await therapy. but i like to think once ive worked through my problems i could get a nice girl friend.
but because i feel im physically ageing and im 29, and i have two missing teeth. at the bottom front. i worry i might be past the stage of being able to get a pretty girlfriend/ and will only be able to attract older women, and their not my preference. what does anyone think?
2007-03-22 08:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're in luck; you're a guy.
Unlike most males, many females choose based on things besides looks.
Many are attracted to older men.
Get your teeth fixed, and your age won't be a problem, as men age more slowly and look good longer than women.
At, say, 35 you'll be fine. I hope you have the sense not to go for 18 year olds by then.
2007-03-22 16:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a bar and find the girls that are dancing on the bar. They're usually so drunk you could have no teeth and it wouldn't matter. If your looking just to hook up. If your looking for a girlfriend i would suggest getting happy with yourself first. Start working out, get your therapy, go to the dentist, then go for the girl. Your 29 not 99. And 29 is young!!!
2007-03-22 08:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by cevron@sbcglobal.net 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Physical beauty is only skin deep.
I've seen somewhere that beauty is 70% mental (attitude) and 30% cosmetic.
Get the teeth fixed, implanted, or whatever. Go for a new hair style and color or highlights. Get a facial, manicure, pedicure, massage and wardrobe update. You'll feel better about you.
The rest is attitude.
2007-03-22 08:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by birdwatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter about the looks, if they truly loved you they would be with you for who you are. some women are quite partial to older men ;)
Don't get your self down about looking older, it shows that your more mature than some of the childish men out there. have fun and good luck in you love life!!!
xx
2007-03-22 09:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by Xx-Zowie-xX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want someone that only wants you for your appearance anyway. You'll find someone who likes you borderline personality disorder and live happily ever after.
2007-03-22 08:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with older women! I'm 31 but I don't just take anyone! Quite the opposite I'm more fussy now!!!
2007-03-22 08:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Get your teeth fixed..
Your current ideal female selection is between 18 & 28...
In 10 yrs. your ideal selection will be 18 & 35...
2007-03-22 08:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've aged yourself out of the teenage market, not sure
but believe you may find some pretty fine ladies in the
21 - 35 market -- it ALL depends on you and whom you
are interested in
2007-03-22 08:29:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should think about meeting a nice girl it should not matter what age she is, if you meet someone and click nothing else matters,
i never see a blokes outer beauty i tend to see their personality, my friends tend to look at a bloke i'm going out with and they say "what are you doing with him" but it really is what is inside that counts good looks are just a bonus.
2007-03-22 08:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by chocchip24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck Buddy it sounds like you have a few strikes against you already I think you better find a handpicked older one (wtf) start hangin out at Bingo Halls and maybe the Senior Center
2007-03-22 08:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋