should we still talk?

Question

I am the one that always calling my guy friend. He never calls me at all. Only when I call him, he calls back but on his own to call me, he never call. I want us to do a lot together since we live far from each other. He says he do too but when it comes to that day he suppose to show up, he doesn't. I like him so much but in reality, I feel so hurt.Like he don't want to have nothing to do with me. So should we still talk?

Answer 1

If I were you I would stop calling him for a while. Start living your life. When he notices that you aren't worried about him then he may start calling again. But in the meantime just concentrate on you.

Answer 2

I am a guy and was in the same situation. I never had to call because she always did, like clockwork. Even if I didnt show up, I got another chance. I learned the hardway when she no longer called me, and when I finally called her she found someone more interested in her than me. Use some distance. If he doesnt respond you are wasting your time. He has someone else too

Answer 3

I think you should lay down some rules. What you should tell him the next time you call him.

1. He has to start calling you
2. Show up when you say you are
3. Visit me more

When you are done saying all those things then you should tell him how you feel when he does this to you. If he still doesn't follow the rule, tell him IT'S OVER

Answer 4

Key words. "Guy Friend" is not to be confused with "Boy Friend." If he is indeed your "Guy Friend" don't expect anything more than what you've gotten already. Now if he's your "Boy Friend", then your feelings are completely justifiable. Bottom line, there needs to be some sort of clarity in this relationship. You're thinking and feeling one thing, he's thinking something totally opposite.

Answer 5

You say he's your friend, but you're acting like a girlfriend. It doesn't sound like he wants to invest in your friendship as much as you do, so stop calling him so much and live your life. He'll come around if he wants, or not, but either way, it'll stop having you feel so desperate.

Answer 6

Obviously he isn't that interested or he would show up when he is supposed to, or call when he says he will. DON'T call him you are just making a fool of yourself. I'm not trying to be mean, just honest. I have been there many times!!

Answer 7

Stop chasing him and let him come to you if he wants to hang out. Nothing is more unattractive than a clingy, desperate person.
Tell him the ball is in his court, and that he can get a hold of you when he has the chance.

Answer 8

Just straight up and tell him. I did that with one of my woman friends, and now we're best friends again. I know it hurts, but there's gotta be a reason. You can E-mail him, text him, tell him to meet you somewhere. And just say," It seems like we don't hang out as much as we used to." Or something like that. Good luck.

Answer 9

You are making things too easy for him. You need to blow him off like he does to you and when he realizes that he hasn't talked to you in a while and that you haven't called, he'll say "I wonder what's going on with her". Right now, you are too available.

Answer 10

not unless he's always been like that. If this is new behavior, he has moved on to having other friends. But if he's always been like that, then some people are just different than we expect them to be and we're friends with them anyway. You just have to understand he's not reliable.