I feel really, really terrible and I have asked for forgiveness, but I still am beating myself up about it. I went to my friend's house and snooped through all of his things. I was angry and jumped the gun and thought he was lying about something and so I went to snoop to look for an answer, to what I don't know. When he called, turns out he was really where he said he was going. Now I feel bad. I did it out of insecurity, totally dumb of me. So, now I feel bad because I snooped and based judgement on him AGAIN over some stupid things I did find, and I am hoping he didn't have a camera spying on me.... I feel terrible, because he wouldn't have done that to me, I don't think.
2007-03-22 07:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by La Mexicana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know why I post questions I am genuinley concerned about and then get someone like Eddie, who, by the looks of his profile...(ok, I'll be nice). In all honesty, out of all the answers, I did happen to like Eddie's the best because, yes, it was not something that I should have done and my friend would probably think that too...and really, he does think good of me and I should in turn respect him. He's been a good friend. So, Eddie, you are right..it was being like a "stalker". The rest of your answer didn't make sense.
2007-03-22 10:27:50 · update #1
you are in my prayers sweetheart! and god bless you!
2007-03-22 08:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was a beer commercial, it would say...
"Boo, psycho stalker chick...Yay, beer...its Redstripe, Hooray Beer"!
Stalker!
***additional***
The rest of my beer was kind of related to a red stripe beer commercial...not sure how close that was to duplication of it, but I remember a "Boo Creepy foot guy, Hooray Beer"
I do think that you were being kind of "stalker-ish"...the rest of my comment, I was just a little bored...and in a good mood.
***as to the comment about my profile***
Take a look at my answers...agreed, probably 90% of them are me ripping on someone, joking around, having a good time. Then, the rest of the time, I can give an occasional serious answer. In this case, it was both.
I do feel it was wrong, if she snooped through my stuff...I would be mad. It only shows that she did not trust him, and snooping is wrong. You were wrong for doing that, the rest of my comment was me being foolish.
If you would like an honest answer of what you should do...I say tell him the truth. Tell him you went through his stuff, tell him you know it was wrong and that you feel bad for what you did. Then, ask him to forgive you for what did. That way, you have been honest, you made a mistake, and let him know you feel bad for it...that way you lay it out on the table and have it off your chest. That is my honest answer, me trying to help. The rest is a joke, sorry, sometimes I just like to smile.
2007-03-22 14:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through. Just remember the next time you want to do something like that again, remember how you are feeling right now. Practice on trusting more and not snooping.
Peace & Love
2007-03-22 14:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by princess4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so your embrassed that you were wrong and you feel guilty for going through his private things; just to learn that he is telling the truth.
Think of this as a learning experience and that you have to learn to trust people. if you dont trust people you end up making foolish mistakes and than regretting it.
I think the only way to get over this regret is to tell him the truth and ask him to forgive you. It will make you feel better and help you sleep at night.
2007-03-22 14:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to talk to your friend so that you can feel better.
2007-03-22 14:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋