My girl has 2 kids by another man. They dont talk but i'm kinda jelous about them havings kids together, help!

Question

I've really want my own kids. she is 20 years old and has a 2 and a 4 year old. I'm almost 26 and want my own kids. She is not very fond of this idea. This i think is not fair to me. what should i do?

Answer 1

She is probably looking at it as kids are alot of responsibility and not that she would not want one with you. If you really really love her and she really does not want any more children, you can be a very big part of her children's life now!!! or if you really love her but need a child born by you and she does not want one and you can't handle that then you will have to move on.

I am divorced and have two beautiful children and my fiancee' now absolutely adores them and visa versa, there is no need for us to have one together.

Answer 2

You need to prioritize. Which do you want more? Her or your own children? If you really, truly love her, then just stick it out. If you're not married, maybe it would be more helpful to get married that way she would know you were serious about the relationship.

Answer 3

Leave her or get therapy. You need to get over the fact that she got impregnated by someone else. Also, if you really want kids and she doesn't want anymore, you better leave now while you have time to find someone, marry her and knock her up. Get out now!

Answer 4

Talk to her about it. Is there a reason why your feeling jealous? Is she doing something that makes you feel that way? If not you have to come to terms with the fact that she has had children with other men, and she cares for you enough to be with you and only you.

Answer 5

i'm in the same boat. my man has two kids with his ex. if you love her, stick it out. you must really love her if you want her to have your kids. give it time, she will come around.