me and my partner has been togther 8 months now and so far so good but we keep argueing cause of his friend. because his friend has not seen him he blames it all on me when its not me i aint hardly seen me fella either cause he has been working till late and working hard. so his friend tells him and other people he dont want to kno either of us no more. but weeks later he does, my fella is a mug to forgive him. his friend does it all the time.now its making me and my partner to argue all the time i dont kno wat to do no more it gets me rite down and is destroying our relationship what should i do? finish it with my fella? i need some help with this i want to make the right choice!!
2007-03-22 07:34:08 · 5 answers · asked by chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
me and my partner have spoke about it but he tells me to shut up and stop being silly! should i shut up and let his friend take him for a mug?
2007-03-22 07:43:39 · update #1
Just keep in mind men alway's say "Bro's befo Ho's", so think about that. If they have been friends for along time its gonna be hard to compete with that unless the boyfriend see's that the friend is doing something wrong.
I can't tell you to leave him, that has to be your choice, but you need to think of how its going to affect you. Don't make him choose, your the one that needs to decide what your willing to deal with .
2007-03-22 07:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a bit vague.
What, exactly, do you argue about?
He can't change his friend; if his friend is being a pill, your partner can't do a thing about it.
If that's what you're arguing about, then, yes, stop.
If it's that he's agreeing with the friend that you are at fault, then it sounds like it's over.
But it's hard to say, as you aren't very explicit about what the problem is.
So what if the friend says a bunch of stuff about you being the reason he doesn't see his friend anymore.
If the real reason is that he's working a lot, then ignore him.
If the problem is that you want all of your partner's free time to yourself, you're being unrealistic.
He works a lot and only has so much time.
If he wants to spend some of that time with his old friends, you are wrong to try to get between them. He has the right to have friends.
You need to find ways to occupy your time without him.
But, as I say, I can't tell which of these things -- or what, exactly, is going on.
2007-03-22 15:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This issue is not about your partner's friend, it's about you and your partner. Only you two can let someone get between you. Talk to your partner and decide what you want to do about this friend and make sure partner talks to friend. If you can't resolve a simple issue like this, then maybe it's time to finish with the fella.
2007-03-22 07:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she on the pill? now and returned the pill could have that effect. additionally, youthful people are in all risk going to ask you her age and inform you that ladies persons of their 30s and 40s are only like that...yet i'm 40 4 and if I hadn't had intercourse because of the fact the 1st week in September i may be chasing my bf around like a dogs in warmth. good success.
2016-10-01 08:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by celia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest piping down about the friend with your partner. If this friend is the snake you perceive him to be, your partner will discover this for himself eventually.
2007-03-22 08:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋