I wanted to began having sex intercourse but my mom was like no what the biggie about it It's like everyone in my school is doing I'm like the popular girl but know imma geek because i'mma virgin
2007-03-22 07:24:18 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If youre asking yahoo answers, then yea you're way to young. So what if youre a geek for not having sex, do you want to be called a whore because you sleep around, i would rather be a geek any day.
2007-03-22 07:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by [[<3]] 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You didn't even say your age...???
But everyone is NOT doing it. I am 14 and I know only 1 person who I have heard that has done it. You are not a geek because you are a virgin...it means that you have done good so far. Please keep on doing good. The best time to do it is when you are married. That way you will have no regrets or emotional baggage to carry into your marriage. There is a much less chance of you getting and STD then too. And no matter how much people want to deny it there are TONS of people with STD's. If "everyone" in your school is doing it then that means that some of them definately have it too...and you don't know which ones and they aren't going to tell you. It's not very safe. The odds are against you if you choose to have sex.
It is a "biggie". Your mom doesn't want to getting an STD or pregnant. And if you are the popular girl then you are not a geek and you don't need to start having sex to change the label from "popular" to "sl*t". Think before you act. Save yourself until marriage and I know that you won't regret it. And if you are absolutly not going to have morals and take my adivce, then at least wait till you are 18. If you begin as a teenager..that is the worst time to start. Think before you act, please. You don't want to become another statistic do you. Well if you have sex, get an STD, or get pregnant you are going to be one.
2007-03-22 10:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen little girl, being popular is not a reason to have sex. You should be in love and in a committed relationship --like with your husband. If you have sex now to be popular, you'll be popular for that very reason --because all the guys will know that you put out and that's all they will want you for. Then there are all those STD's to worry about and pregnancy, the only way to prevent these 100% is abstinence. Your virginity is something personal, the whole school doesn't need to know about it. As a rule of thumb, your body should be fully developed before you have sex. I waited until I was married and I am very happy. And trust me, all those people who seem so important now won't matter when schools over and all you have left is what you think of yourself. Your self-respect or not if you don't treat your body with the dignity it deserves.
2007-03-22 07:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by dimplez 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No school age person is a "geek" because they are a virgin.
You say what's the biggie about having sexual intercourse at your age.
Apparently you are too young to realize this is how you get pregnant and have children. It's not something you do at a young age "for fun".
2007-03-24 15:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you first of all. And dont give in to peer pressure there is so much that goes with having sex. You do not want to be a teen mom or end up with a STD. Not only that but there is a lot of emotions that come with having sex. You are not a geek for being a Virgin.
I wish i had waited longer to lose mine, but i cant change that at all. Make sure you love the person and are ready for the emotional rollercoaster that comes with losing it. Dont let anyone EVER pressure you into it or tease you because of it. thats just messed up.
2007-03-22 07:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by resqshanna 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If everyone in your school jumped off a bridge would you? If everyone in your school turned into murderers would you? Just by your question it shows you are not mature enough for sex. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin despite what you might think not everyone in your school is having sex. Are some? Yes. All? No. There are some people who actual do wait till they have meet that right person.
2007-03-22 08:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey trust me it changes your status. My bestfriend was the same way, the hot commodtiy at school, She held out the first two years and then she did it, as soon as I did, she became the school slut. That boy went back and told everyone what they did and it wasn't cute.
Besides if I could go back to highschool and change when I did it I would too. once it's gone it's gone baby and you can't get it back. I regretted giving it away that young and I was 17!! I noticed as soon as I let it go that guys like the virgins more than the ones who have already done it. I'm sure those girls that have done it wish they didn't.
2007-03-23 07:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has been a program in some area's called Why Wait and it's got a powerful message. It's important to wait for your life long partner and not just do it because everyone is doing it. That would be like every one is jumping off a bridge so I want to do it to be cool. Your virginity is the main thing you have to offer your husband in the future. Please wait until your wedding night I promise it will be worth it. It's also biblical too.
2007-03-22 08:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young if you are not married. High school is too young.
BESIDES...girls at a tender age having sex have a significantly higher incidence of cervical cancer. And guess who is the highest demographic now contracting HIV/AIDS...nope, not gays. Teenaged girls. Your peers.
A geek? Maybe...but a healthy, LIVING geek. And a SMART geek....if you're still a virgin when you read this.
2007-03-22 11:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Fotomama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You're not a geek cos your a virgin. You want your first time to be crap just cos everyone else is doing it? Believe me, it's not worth it. Wait until you feel ready to do it.... You won't be the popular girl if you go round having sex. Only popular to the guys... Think carefully about it first. And do it for you, not for everyone else babe x
2007-03-22 07:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋