he has a drug proplem an has been in an out of jail and rehabs for the last 9 years of her marriage,an he just started doing drugs again.she wonts to be free an move on but she wont to follow the bilbe,but shes not happy with him.she doesn't do drug,smoke or anything bad. DIVORCE OR STAY TOGETHER?
2007-03-22 07:23:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cannot tell her either way what to do but i suggest she gets away on her knees in her prayer closet and cry out to God for her husband and her marriage. She needs to ask God to show her what to do and listen to him and him alone. She may also want to talk to a Chrstian counselor about this and ask them for advice in this matter. She may also want to ask for prayer from other Christians with her about it... ALso have her talk to the pastor of her church for help in this matter as well. I also suggest her to go to http://www.marriagetoday.org and email Jimmy and Karen Evans for help and advice too. I am here if she needs someone to talk to about this. She needs to seek God's will and face about this... Here comes lots of hugs for her today. My thoughts and prayers are with her today... I have a question was he on drugs and like this when she married him or did this happen afterwards? I do suggest that she at least seperate from him for the time being to try and sort her head and heart out so she can spend time alone with God about this before making any final decision either way.
2007-03-22 07:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judyboot tell her friend that DIVORCE is imminent if she wants happiness. The bible doesn't expect a person to remain unhappy in life and if he has been in rehab and jail for 9 years of marriage without any resolve it wasn't for her lack of trying. She tried for 8 years too long. Give her the reinforcement that she needs to end this charade.
2007-03-22 07:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey: A marriage is a matter of relationship and so is drug use. It is obvious that your friends wants to honor her marriage, but her husband has other things in mind. I find that nine years is a long time and that she has lived as a prisoner all throughout. I believe that it is time to take action. Although I do not advocate divorces, I also find that it is ungodly and unhealthy to live in agony. Divorce seems to be in order here, so she should consider it.
Mr. M on "husband."
2007-03-22 07:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce!
2007-03-22 08:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No brainer, tell her to get out and divorce. He will ruin her entire life not just the 9 years they have been married.
2007-03-22 07:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce absolutely. Why stay in a relationship where you are not happy?
2007-03-22 07:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by kltorres81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does not like divorce, but he makes allowances for situtations like these. Your friend's husband is risking her life in the process of destroying his.
2007-03-22 07:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has an enabling problem, once she learns she cant change him, it will be up to her to make the decision. The bible was written many many years ago by men, they did not have the problems back then that we do now.
2007-03-22 07:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for your friend to take of herself and move on. if she has kids by this guy then she should definitely get to moving it's not a good enviorment for her or them. maybe her leaving him might put him on the straight and narrow for good only time (lots&lots of time) will tell.
2007-03-22 07:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce. God will understand.
2007-03-22 07:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋