some women are just hateful toward me. I am thinking it is because I am attractive and they are jealous so they lash out at me. They should not because I am the most down to earth good friend a woman can ever find. I never let my looks get to my head but it seems as though my looks have gotten to many women's heads. I never got this and when ever I confronted a woman who was being hateful to me they did not want to hear and turned up the hatefulness. I tell you, some women can be very jealous, hateful, strange and wierd all at once. Why are some of us like that? I do not get it.
2007-03-22 07:21:30 · 26 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have the same problem as you!! I try not to take it personal, but I am also not going to let myself go just to please them. I please myself, my husband and maybe others (that doesn't matter since I love my hubbie), but I do it for myself and my husband.
Continue to let Aphrodite's gift live in you. lol
2007-03-22 07:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I get that same thing too! Then they think that you are being arrogant or whatever. To be honest, I do not care what anyone thinks of me you are always going to have some women out there that either doesn't like your shoes, your hair, your clothes, your car, etc. Jealous in women is because they use prejudgement on each other aboout who they think the person is instead of just being friendly and respectful to one another. The other issue is, maybe they want what you have you know, but in my eyes everyone is beautiful. Don't let these women bother you walk in confidence God blessed everyone with beauty and what matters is what is inside, and it is sad that some women may loose out on just knowing that. Oh and another thing watch out for friends jealous and friends over the way you look are the worse. They are so busy worrying about why you look so attractive instead of paying attention to themselves, so don't you go worrying about why they hating on you!
2007-03-22 07:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by cake23us 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't go clubbing any more, as that was another time and place in my life, but the women would give me bad looks all the time. My guy friends would say they were jealous of me, as I was attractive and was outgoing and could dance well, and was well liked by many. I learned to ignore their rudeness and made friends with people who were nice to me, which most were men. Ignore the mean women, there are some that are nice, it's better to have a few good friends than many acquaintances, lucky for me I have sisters and we are always close with each, and women would act mean to them too... for the same reasons,even my older daughters, women are always hating on them as they are beautiful. I am nice to everyone too, just be yourself, don't let their negativity unset you.
2007-03-22 07:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There can only be one Alpha Male and one Alpha Female in any situation. When an attractive woman comes around some women think "she thinks she's so pretty" and it's just pure jealousy. They kind of feel threatened like they might steal their man or something. Or take the attention away from them. Not me. I like to think I'm quite down to earth also and I hate jealous people.
2007-03-22 08:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by ☺SDgurl☺ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From reading your questions, you seem to come across as very stuck -up, snooty, and defensive. You are begging for ridicule, and people on the the internet are always happy to oblige. for God's sake, "I am spa-maintained", what the hell does that mean, are you a 51 Chevy or a woman? Plus you bray on and on about your superior hotness, when you have no idea who we are out here, get ever your self and go f*ck your gigolo.
You said you just wanted to ask a question, well, I think you just wanted people to agree with you, I know you are trying to be younger, but that is just juvenile, not in a good way.
2007-03-23 11:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think to be "hateful" are their first defense because their first reaction is to feel intimidated. All of us, even you and I Momma K, have women who make us feel "less than" when we are in their presence. I've noticed women who appear to actually "shrink" in my presence and it truly makes me feel bad (in most cases - I have to admit that sometimes I like the attention I get from women more so than men because a man will look regardless - you could have one leg but as long as you have breasts you're okay with them - but when another woman admires the way you look, then you know you look good). Anyway, there isn't anything you can do about it. It's just the way things are. I try to smile and be friendly and show that I'm not a "******" just because I'm beautiful. God made me the way that I am, I had absolutely nothing to do with it. HOWEVER, I think that all women have the potiential to be beautiful. If you weren't born with naturally beautiful skin, they have make up for that, if you are overweight and out of shape, join a gym, if you have short hair and have a desire to have long hair, get a weave. I don't care whatever it takes to make yourself appear as beautiful as you can, that's what you should do. And if you don't choose to do that, then don't hate on me because I care about how I look and have God-given beauty (along with a few careful secrets...shhhhh). Anyway, that's my take on it. Keep your head up girl and dare to be as beautiful as you are.
2007-03-22 08:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is the very reason I don't have woman friends.They are to jealous and mean spirited.I only hang out or make friends with guys.Woman like to cause to much drama.And you know It is not so much they are jealous of your looks has they are just evil people.They are not happy within themselves and they like to put other people down.And start crap with them.I know not all woman are like this because I am not.But there is a lot of them out there.Just blow them off they aren't worth the time or effort.
2007-03-22 11:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are jealous and catty creatures. They think if you look good their man is looking at you and they immediately don't like you. They see you as a threat. Just ignore the hateful ones and find good friends when you can. Yep, that's about it.
2007-03-22 08:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They see you as a threat. I get called "hootchie mama" all the time at work because I dress nice and take care of myself. The other women are jealous. They are either over weight, or just plain out don't care what they look like, they sometimes dress like they're lounging around the house all day. It's real sad.
2007-03-22 07:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's called insecurity hun...afraid you could take their man (which could be true if u were interested). It doesn't matter what u look like though. Don't let these immature, insecure, little wenches get u down! It is all about how the women feel about themselves. I'm not a small woman but i like me the way i am...so what if you have the so called (perfect figure). That's society's standards, not mine. Don't waste your time worrying about it. It's their problem, not yours.
2007-03-22 07:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by globalystic1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The ones that are jealous and mean for no reason obviously have serious self-esteem issues. They may be afraid that you will steal their man, or that they will seem less attractive because you are so hot by comparison. You shouldn't worry about what these shallow minded women think.
2007-03-22 07:26:27 · answer #11 · answered by Katt 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋