First Child?

Question

Hey guys! I just joined yahoo answers because im expecting my first Child on sept.11 ( ya beautiiful date to have be in labor) lol but i would gladly take any advice from all of you i don tknow what to expect on anything and im doing this all wihtout the father ( my choice) so any guidance on Eating & discomfort or just pregnancy period would be greatly appreciated! You can be completely random and just tell me some of your stories i dont care. Thanks in advanced! BTW im 15 weeks pregnant!

Answer 1

Hey, congrats! Pretty exciting time! I'm a single mom too, of almost 6 year old twins. Hmmm.... some random advice: start building your support network now, you're going to need help. Stock up now on diapers (especially size 3), wipes, diaper shirts and formula (if you don't plan on breastfeeding, make sure to check the expiry date); it'll help you save money later. Get a really good stroller, it's probably the 1 thing I would never buy used... except car seats I guess. Everything else, take advantage of consignment shops and online sites like craigslist or kijiji. Don't worry about the date, babies never arrive on the exact due date LOL!

Answer 2

The first thing to remember is that every pregnancy is different. I remember with my first child, I felt great. I worked up until 1 week before she was born. I had some nausea in the first few weeks, but never actually threw up. I could just take deep breaths and it would go away. My second child was a harder pregnancy. I was tired all the time, sick all the time, but the delivery and recovery was much easier. With my first child they ended up having to do an emergency c-section. My second child was a planned c-section, and I knew how to prepare. My advice is to buy some of those disposable storage containers (hefty or ziploc). You can prepare food in advance and freeze them. You may not feel much like cooking immediately after your child is born. You can just take the containers out of the freezer and heat them up. Drink lots of water, and stay active. It can help your body recuperate quicker. Read everything you can get your hands on to prepare ("What to Expect When You're Expecting" also "What to expect in the First Year" "Second Year" etc.) I also recommend breast-feeding when your child is born. Their immune systems will be stronger, and you have a stronger bond with your child. Please feel free to e-mail me if you have any other questions or just want to chat about your pregnancy. I went through 2 pregnancies alone. It's nice to have a support group. Good luck.

Answer 3

I had my first and only child at age 20.I gained a lot of weight but thats because I was a little Piggy.First the bad.My feet swelled up towards the end and I could only wear flip flops.
I walked like a duck .I craved lemons.I mean I would just eat them.My breast hurt and I had to wear granny panties..Very tired.
Increased sex drive around the 8 th month and of course not being able to fit in anything.Now for the good.Never in my life or since then has food tasted so good,I mean a real enjoyment.No acne.A sense of peace and I was so happy.The first time I felt her move was till this day the most beatiful experience.I talked to hear and the love you feel makes your heart swell.I was alone but I lived with my parents
All the small discomforts melt away with feeling your baby move.The funny stuff like going to a restaurant and ordering so much food people stare at you.Its just funny,it does not bother you at all.My parents have a beach house in Costa Rica and I went there for about a month.Swimming is divine when your pregnant.Its so personal and perfect.You will see.I enjoyed it so much.The first time you see them on the ultrasound its so amazing.I recorded her heartbeat and I still listen to it sometimes.She is away at college her first semester and I think about that time like I said as the best of my life.Enjoy it,spent time alone with your baby,bond with the baby.You feel special like privy to a secret only you know.I wish you all the best in the world.
Dont eat fish,certain fish has to much mercury in it.Try to eat as healty as you can.Besides all the goodies I ate.I ate 6 sevings of fruit and had 1 huge salad with vegetables everyday.Take your vitamins,stay away from caffeine.Excercise like taking a stroll everyday not to long.Sleep when you feel like it if you can.If you just want to talk or have more specific q you can email me at [e-mail] I am a OBGYN nurse.Once again good luck to you and you baby.

Answer 4

Congratulations!
The first thing to remember is that there is no 'normal' in pregnancy, so what happens with one pregnant person won't necessarily happen to you.
Just eat healthily.
Expect things to hurt because you are growing a whole new person...all your internal organs have to move out of the way to make room for your little one- it's going to be uncomfortable.

If you experience any unbearable or out-of-the-ordinary pains, get to a doctor, and don't be like some people I have seen on here asking for strangers' advice when it should be a doctor they are talking to.

Well done for being strong enough to do this alone!

Answer 5

Congrats! It's exciting, and don't count on the baby being born the 11th, unless a C-section is scheduled for that day. Breastfeed,if you can, and keep open communication with your husband and doctor always. It's ok not to be in the mood. One of the greates things I felt with my first was feeling her move inside. The worst was the blood work...but it's worth it, don't live out of a book. Women who have experience and are willing to talk about will give you the best education on pregnancy, childbirth and raising children. I will never refer to a book ,unless it's a medical condition, ever again. But this is me, Good Luck!

Answer 6

I comprehend what you saying although, once you get a toddler from start you get this attachment and there is not any way which you will no longer love that baby such as you very own. My mom had 4 of her organic and organic toddlers and she or he accompanied 2 greater toddlers and that i felt that the accompanied toddlers have been given greater advantageous scientific care. no longer that i became jeolous my mom became so into those childen additionally she has a million woman from start and the different woman became 3 years old. ok so i became a sprint jeolous even though it only comes organic on account which you as a baby prefer to maintain getting good scientific care. possibly it may be you 5 year old which would be jeolous, it relies upon on the way you cope with the hot baby.

Answer 7

I enjoyed pregnancy the 2nd and 3rd times the best. My first I was 20, living at home while attending school and working. I would highly reccomend a parenting site such as babyzone or babycenter for companionship. Both sites have message baords and discussion forums to tlak, ask questions and get some online buddies due about the same time you are.

Answer 8

aw. my due date is september 14th. not too far from yours.
Well, its my first too and since were about the same time i cant really tell you anything you probably havent already expierenced yet.
I get moody alot. Morning sickness has passed. I still every now and then get light cramping((streching of uterus)) but nothing too bad, just mainly when i cough or sneeze.
My sex drive has gone waaaay down but eh, whatever.
Ive been craving salty/sour foods. Ive heard the heartbeat a few times and got a little picture of the expected one from ultrasound. My boobs have gotten extremely large.
Before i got pregnant i was at a 34C now im at a 34D.
Just really excited about the whole situation...
Like i said i probably didnt really tell you anything you havent expierenced but good luck!!!!

Answer 9

The best advise I can give is to drink lots and lots of water and keep your body moving.

No one told me with my first how incredibly important water is during pregnancy. The amniotic fluid is totally replenished every 24 hours, so you need to keep well hydrated. If you get dehydrated, you body will start acting like a sponge and holding all the fluids it can.

Also, exercise is vitally important. It helps keep your circulation going and helps you in labor.

Both of these, together, will reduce your risk of pre-eclampsia.

Also...don't sweat the 9/11 thing. Our 4th was born on9/11. I feel like it is a lovely reminder from God that he is still in control.

After he/she comes breastfeed. It is so great for both you and baby.

Answer 10

Be prepared for strangers to give you their opinion on everything you do & buy & expect lots of these strangers to touch your tummy specially once you're quite big - a pregnancy seems to make people think your life is their business.

Be prepared to need the loo every 5 mins.

If you really, really want to eat something unusual ie chillies with ice-cream then as long as it's safe then eat it. This is your body's way of getting vitamins & stuff you are lacking.