Taurus male, Gemini female. Does it work?

Question

Let's say they get married. His 3rd, her 2nd. How likely is it the marriage will last?

Answer 1

The Taurus male will be steadfast and conservative...a man who loves his home and children. By nature, he is a hard-worker and usually cautious in financial affairs, although he may well overstep his limits for those he truly loves and trusts. This is a male who will react strongly to any perceived wrong. In such circumstances, when the Taurus temper is sure to flare, it would be unwise for any partner to argue or try to overcome a bad situation. Thus, the best course of action would be to retreat, maintain silence and simply wait for the air to clear. In order to be happy with a man governed by this Sign, it must be remembered that although he may not show really deep affection on the surface, this is only because he has complete confidence in his partner and takes, as a matter of course, that such partner is well aware of his feelings. With an intense love for the good things in life...and nothing affords him more pleasure...this male will probably prepare food and throw lavish parties for mutual friends. He may also become involved in politics, particularly issues dealing with reform of the existing system. Possessed with great animal magnetism, the Taurus man is sure to draw and attract people, including other women, and any potential partner will need to accept this without displays of jealousy. That having been said, this is not to imply that any philandering on his part should be endured or accepted, but simply that constant flirtations are sure to come his way...he is very attractive to the opposite sex. It will also be important for any partner to be certain to give the Taurus male no cause to doubt the intention behind similar personal flirtations with others. Anger and jealousy run exceedingly high in these men and may disturb the molecules of their bodies to such an extent that sickness and even death may result from such a prolonged encounter with negative emotions. The Taurus male is loyal to his friends but must be permitted to have his own way. He will brook little opposition...even from a family member, close friend or mate. On some levels, his motto might even be "My way or the highway!" If an enemy is made of the Taurus male, then he is likely to become a bitter and relentless opponent, one who neither forgives nor easily forgets. For reasons unknown, men ruled by this Sign are often found to possess a decided fear of suffering. This is not so much their own mental or physical suffering, but that of others, and they tend to translate such into seeming callousness. They hate all pain and all mental anguish or weakness that anyone in their world might demonstrate. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to make the Taurus male feel comfortable. He likes to be well fed and any partner must learn to give in when the mood to dominate is on him. In addition, it will be necessary to learn about the branch of art in which he is most interested. He likes his mate to always look attractive and would prefer to be consulted about the choice of his loved one's clothing before a purchase is made. He likes to be referred to for most matters concerning family and domestic life. Although the ultimate decision will likely be left in the hands of his partner, the Taurus male likes to be asked first.

The Gemini female is perhaps the most complex of the entire Zodiac when it comes to love and understanding. Her life will be full of contradictions. Not only does this woman say one thing and then do something else, her interests are so broad and her idealism so great, that she appears change with lightning speed. For example, in religious matters, her nature if often very strong...yet, she frequently does not confine or limit her beliefs to any one religion, sect, doctrine or creed, harboring much respect for all religious teachings and inclined to be very tolerant and liberal. The best ploy for any potential partner is to seduce her by promises of a long-term commitment. If a potential mate cannot do this in good conscience, then it should at least be made plain to the Gemini female that a long-term commitment is not out of the question some time in the future. Aside from this, she will need intellectual stimulation but should be allowed to win arguments. In terms of physical intimacy, the Gemini woman is difficult because she is so unpredictable and changeable...a partner will seldom know how to interpret what she says or what she does. One moment, she may be a siren and the next, a devout nun. There is a natural tendency for females governed by this Sign to crave things they do not possess only to find them mundane and unimportant once the desires have been granted. This woman often appears to be looking for something...hoping to find total happiness. Unfortunately, due to the inherent dual personality of this female, she may never be truly gratified for any length of time. In everything she does, the Gemini woman goes to extremes, almost as though she fails to understand the meaning of moderation. She is constantly nervous and always searching anxiously for something to do. When the lower nature of this female has full sway, she will seem to be obsessed with sensations of dissatisfaction and discontent that nothing in the outside world can explain, but which will cause those around her to feel totally disturbed. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to provide constant change is order for the Gemini woman to remain happy. Essentially, the Gemini female is charming and lovable...but elusive.

The Taurus native would be well-advised to keep a cool head when first meeting an individual governed by the Sign of Gemini. Though easily swept up in the initial wonderful excitement of such a relationship, Taurus will soon find that such euphoria does not last overly long and usually mistakes the wild infatuation for true love. By nature, Gemini is charming but far too involved in a hectic social life to worry unduly about domestic affairs. If the Taurus individual expects this partnership to last, then he or she must work exceedingly hard, since Gemini desires a mate who can share in personal interests and social activities. In short, natives of Gemini refuse to settle for a domestic type. Gemini not only desires a partner who will be an excellent host/hostess (which the Taurus individual is sure to be), but also one who will share all his or her interests. It is important to note that should Taurus should try to curb the Gemini tendency to flirt, then there are sure to be squabbles and accusations from the Gemini partner that he or she is being misunderstood. Still, a firm bond can be established if Gemini comes to recognize and appreciate the strength of Taurus, which will provide a comforting shelter for Gemini when the world becomes too much to handle alone. The physical aspect of this union will gradually be affected by the moods of Gemini, which are exceedingly changeable. Gemini natives can be playful and mischievous one minute, quickly becoming basic and animalistic the next. The typical reaction of Taurus to such behavior may well be the seeking of a new partner. Those governed by Gemini enjoy spice in their life and if this cannot be found at home, then they will undoubtedly look elsewhere.

For the Taurus/Gemini relationship to achieve longevity, it will be necessary for both partners to take the time to learn what the dynamics of the union might be and how they can best get along with each other. Taurus has much to offer Gemini and Gemini has much to offer Taurus, but it will take some adjustment and effort on the part of both to make this pairing a success. Gemini natives are often in two minds about things. If possessive Taurus is willing to let go, providing one facet of the dual-natured Gemini with the security and intimacy he or she desires, while allowing the other facet of dual-natured Gemini to have his or her much-needed freedom, then the relationship will flourish. The Taurus partner may want too much in during early days for Gemini's taste, but those ruled by Gemini can become dependable and steady...the Taurus native must simply be patient. The sedate and practical approach to life associated with Taurus differs greatly from the more light and intellectual approach of Gemini. This can result in a difficult dynamic since the Gemini individual may perceived Taurus as a bit on the dull side...and Taurus may perceive the Gemini partner as being flighty and lacking in substance. Still, Taurus can help Gemini become more deeply involved in life and Gemini can help Taurus to add variety, fun and excitement to his or her life.

Taurus is ruled by the planet Venus and Gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury. Since both these planets are close to the Sun, they are always in the same neighborhood, even though very different in character. Venus is associated with physical pleasure, romance and sensuality. Mercury's energy is both masculine and feminine, adopting whichever energy best serves at any given moment. Taurus is simply looking for a dependable and sensual partner. Thus, the brilliance of Gemini may be lost on those governed by Taurus. Gemini natives usually believe that their inherent quick wits are the most important thing about themselves, but they are intelligent enough to learn to be the romantic and sensual partner that Taurus craves...if the desire to do so is there. Taurus is governed by the element of Earth while Gemini is governed by the element of Air. Gemini makes decisions based upon intellect...and whim, on occasion...while Taurus is more practical. Taurus is constantly wondering how something will aid him or her to achieve life's goals, but Gemini goes with the moment, rarely feeling overly pressured to adhere to a set plan. If Taurus gives in to his or her possessive feelings, or if Gemini becomes aloof and detached (as natives of this Sign are prone to do), then the relationship will most assuredly suffer. Here, both partners must strive to remain open and flexible in order to achieve a successful union. Although Gemini seems unpredictable, Taurus can learn to understand that while the Gemini native may flirt, the relationship is still important to him or her. In turn, although the Taurus partner seems overly stubborn, Gemini must use the inherent flexibility associated with this Sign to bend to his or her partner's will every now and again. Taurus is Fixed in quality and Gemini is Mutable. Taurus tends to focus on one thing, person or idea at a time. Gemini moves from one thing, person or idea according to impulse. Thus, the Taurus partner must provide the Gemini native with ample independent and much breathing space. It might also be helpful if Taurus tried to learn the lesson Gemini has to offer...that versatility is sometimes better than a Fixed determination to to things one's own way. The security this pair can give each other...once Taurus allows Gemini to offer such security of his or her own free will...will make for a stable and happy union, provided both partners are able to communicate.

In essence, this combination may be something of a gamble. The Gemini personality may prove to be too restless for the Taurus partner. Gemini natives adore a variety of thoughts and delights, while Taurus is chiefly interested in material items. Thus, given the Taurus bent toward possessiveness, he or she may be unable to hang on to the unsettled Gemini partner. Moreover, Gemini desires change but Taurus wants things to remain as they are. This lends yet more doubt to the possibility of this relationship reaching longevity.

Answer 2

TAURUS/GEMINI: You have really to work hard to establish a good relationship. Temperamentally you are quite opposite. A Taurus male may be able to manage the female-Geminian but should it be the other way round, like the male born under Gemini then the Taurean is in trouble. Your meeting ground is interest in arts, music and creativity. The differences are many. Gemini is to outgoing. Taurus a social Taurus is and stingy, Geminians are spendthrifts. Well this is a stormy relationship.

Answer 3

Taurus and Gemini

You may be taken by the Twin's undeniable charm, but you might also want to think twice before falling in love with a Gemini. Most Bulls are possessive by nature, and you cannot possess an airy Gemini any more than you can own the wind. This can make a good friendship, family, or business oriented relationship, but in more intimate relationships harmonious aspects between Moon and Ascendant are needed.

Because Gemini is of a Mutable nature, he or she won't understand your need to put down roots and general discomfort with change. As far as Gemini is concerned, being free of constraints and exploring different worlds each day is about as close as one can come to heaven. You like to know you can count on things being regular, predictable, and dependable. To Gemini, that spells b-o-r-i-n-g. Of course, your rich imagination and creativity makes you anything but dull, but the flighty, Mercury-influenced Twins sometimes mistake sheer variety for quality. With peace loving Venus guiding you, you may decide to be patient with Gemini and allow him or her to finally realize that you truly are a partner worth settling down for. But then again, you may decide that trying to get a Gemini to commit isn't worth the trouble.

Gemini is Air Sign, and as an down-to-Earth Sign you may have trouble relating to your Gemini friend's less practical nature. It is important to try to understand your innate temperamental differences. If Gemini can respect your need for security and you can respect Gemini's need for variety and change, you may be able to make a go of it. However, don't expect it to be easy. If Taurus represents the toddler of the Zodiac, then Gemini represents the teenager... and neither makes the best playmate for the other.

This combination is not the easiest for close, personal relationships but can work well when harmonious aspects between personal planets and Ascendant exist. You can learn a thing or two from each other, but it will require patience and understanding on both parts!

Answer 4

My cousin and his wife are this combo. She's the Taurus. In speaking with her, she'd never marry a Gemini again, but they're still together, so who knows. They're almost 20 years married. It has not been easy, but what marriage is. Good Luck to you.

Answer 5

IN GENERAL

Taurus and Gemini

When Taurus and Gemini come together, they both need to give each other time to learn about the dynamic of the relationship. Both partners have a great deal to give each other! Gemini's Symbol is the Twins, and this Sign can often be of two minds about things. If Taurus can let go and give one Twin the security it wants while allowing the other Twin its freedom, this can be a long-lasting relationship. Early in the relationship, Taurus may want too much for Gemini's taste, but if Taurus is willing to wait a while Gemini will eventually settle in to a dependable relationship that both partners will enjoy.

Taurus and Gemini have different approaches to life; Taurus is more sedate and practical and Gemini is intellectual. It can be hard for Gemini to accept the down to earth approach of Taurus. It might be hard for Taurus to accept Gemini's flightiness and occasional lack of substance. Taurus can help Gemini to be more involved in life and to see the depth of ideas rather than simply the surface. Gemini can help Taurus add variety and fun, bringing new excitement into both lives.

Taurus is ruled by the Planet Venus and Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury. Both of these Planets are close to the Sun, so they're always in the same neighborhood even though they are very different. Venus is physical; it's about romance and sensuality. Mercury is communication, and has both masculine and feminine energy -- Gemini will take on the form that it chooses. Taurus doesn't need to be dazzled with Gemini's brilliance, but wants a dependable, sensual partner. Gemini has a more intellectual approach, but is good at understanding other people; they can learn to be the romantic and sensual partner that Taurus loves.

Taurus is an Earth Sign and Gemini is an Air Sign. Gemini makes decisions based on intellect, while Taurus is more practical. Taurus asks, "how will this help me achieve my goals in life?" while Gemini simply finds what interests them at the moment without having a set plan in mind. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Taurus is too possessive or Gemini is too aloof or detached. Both need to learn they view the world in different ways. Taurus can be too set in their ways for Gemini's taste, but Gemini may be too unpredictable for their Taurus partner. As long as Taurus understands that although Gemini may flirt, the relationship is still important to them, things will be fine! Gemini must use their flexibility to bend to their partner's will on occasion.

Taurus is a Fixed Sign and Gemini is a Mutable Sign. Taurus tends to be down-to-earth and focused on one project at a time, but Gemini likes to move from pastime to pastime as the feeling takes them. It's easy for Gemini to become interested in the projects that Taurus is devoted to. In turn, Taurus needs to give Gemini the independence the Twins crave. Taurus can make Gemini's ideas produce something even if Gemini has moved on; Gemini can show Taurus that versatility is sometimes better than a Fixed determination to do things one's own way.

The best aspect of the Taurus-Gemini relationship is the security the two can give each other once Taurus allows Gemini to offer that security freely. Both partners can learn to look at the world through new eyes when they open themselves to each other. As long as they communicate with each other, theirs will be a stable and happy relationship.

Answer 6

If your Taurus man is more laid back and less possessive whilst you are more into stability and security to aim to have a good relationship then you two will be just fine..!

Answer 7

no no no no no no no no run get out why u can this is a disastrous couple i wasted 9 yrs in this situation

Answer 8

Maybe but I think it wont