How to get husband to ignore computer game and pay attention to me?

Answer 1

Forget the whole "unplug the comp" or "get naked" ideas...

JUST THROW THE D*** THING OUT THE WINDOW!!!

trust me, comp addicts will never get the point untill there is no computer and they have no choice but to do something more productive with their time.

Answer 2

First thing you need to do is get rid of the friend...that is headed in a bad direction. My husband spends a lot of time on the computer, but I would rather have him home with me than out cruising the bars with the guys. Most men think in the now. When you need something, whether it is help with the kids or attention, just tell him. Walk up to him and tell him you need a hug or he needs to take care of the lawn. If you let these little resentments build, it will make you a very angry lady. At least give your husband a shot at getting it together. Tell him what you want, that may be all that needs to be done!

Answer 3

DUH?
GET NAKED AND DANCE SEXY FOR YOUR MAN IF THIS DON'T DO IT YOUR MAN IS DEAD SORRY! Either that or
he is interested in the game more then loving his wife but
no that can't be right. One other thought flick the main breaker having him think your having a power failure
then take the time to be all affectionate once you have your way with him flick the breaker back on. Of course you want to do this at night.
God Bless and Good Luck most guys love sex. I'm not sure what is going on with your man tell him your going to have to use the 15 inch massive dildo you purchased if he doesn't pleasure you right this minute this may do the trick?

Answer 4

Honey: All the advise given before mine is correct. It is not wrong for him to have fun. It seems that he has found a game that meets his need for adventure while affording the comforts of home. I, too, suggest that you simply join him. Ask him to teach you how to play the game and become his game buddy. How about a few snacks?
I was once in your husband's shoes. I found a couple of games that gave me much joy and my wife complained of being forsaken. In time I outgrew the whole game culture, although I still enjoy playing them. Don't worry, just be there and join in. Who knows? You may get hooked.
Sincerely,
Mr. M on "computer game."

Answer 5

Now, you're not going to think that this is going to work but it will if you have patience.

Make him comfortable, get him a drink (you know what he likes - don't ask him just get it!)

If you see that there's something he needs - get it for him. Be the good wife(y) and he'll respond.

You'll shame him into being the good husband.

Try it for a week and be patient - it won't seem that he'll notice at first - but he is. He's just wondering who stole his wife.

Whatever you do - don't ***** at him. I know that that's the natural thing for a woman to do and it's fine outside of your husband to do that - but don't do that to him. He needs your respect and he'll give you what you want in return.

By the way - what do women want? (sorry, I couldn't resist)

Try it. Try it. And Try it!! until it works.

You'll see.

Remember what first attracted you to him? You were sweet and coy and you looked at him like he was all the world to you. Look at him like that again. Be sweet and be coy. He'll respond.

Did I mention to be sweet?

Answer 6

Easy - pull the plug on the computer! My co worker's husband does the same thing every night, becomes a hermit and hangs out in the basement all night, while she gets to watch their kids by herself. Wouldn't fly in my house! I'm not letting an electronic device come between me and my hubby! Talk to him and let him know you want him to spend more time with you, and see how he reacts. Hopefully you can get more time w/ him, and he can still spend some time on his computer :) Good luck!

Answer 7

I know this doesn't sound like I'm taking this serious, but when my wife shows me some physical attention, I'll stop doing anything I might be doing and give her my undivided, full attention. Most men are motivated by the "s" word

Answer 8

Sorry darling, but I belive that is a battle you will not win.

At least I couldn't! My ex would rather eat, sleep and talk to the stupid Playstation than being with me. (we are talking about 18 hours a day!).

Tried to nag... it didn't work.

Got naked, did me, and then went back to the videogame!

I threw it away... then he went and bought a more expensive one!

I realized that if he rather do that, he was a loser and I deserve better.

So when he was out of the house, I packed his beloved Playstation and his games, along with his clothes and put them in the front yard. I divorced the child-man loser!

Answer 9

Is it an online game?
Go to another computer, enter the game and beat him, then you can chat him up about the game and get busy.

Answer 10

i have this same problem so if you find anything that works well share the wealth!!! sometimes i think talking doesnt do a darned thing for guys. and i dont feel like i should have to offer him sex just to get some attention...what would our marriage be based on then?? maybe try crying....lol