I am flattered, swept off my feet and feel like I am on cloud nine. However, I am wondering if his feeling will last since I am 25 years older than him. What do you think?
2007-03-22 06:47:35 · 14 answers · asked by Momma K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OMG... Yes its wayyyy toooo soooon! I think if a guy tells you he loves you within ONE month, its WAY TOO SOON and he's after something other than your heart. Or he doesnt know any better, and there is NOTHING worse than a guy who doesnt know how to treat or what to say to a woman.
2007-03-22 06:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend said he loved me before we even started dating. We were friends for a long time beforehand. When we started going out, we said "I love you" right away. So it's understandable if you've known the person for a long time... because with time, love develops.
However, if you just met the person ... and in your case, 2 weeks.... then it's not real love. Real love develops and doesn't just appear that fast.
And you're 25 years old than him? That's a really big gap. Honestly, you have a reason to feel uneasy about that...
You better be careful.
2007-03-22 06:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is too soon, any guy who tells a girl that soon is needy and controling.
Yes you are too old, he will dump you in a few years for a newer model. Sorry not trying to be mean but that is way too many years for a woman to be older than her man. When your looks go, so will he.
2007-03-22 06:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His feelings are his feelings and he is entitled to them
another person cannot tell you what he truely feels
although it seems a little soon may be he really does
but since your his g/f you know him better than we do to know if he has other motives...
Could have been love at first sight for him and maybe it took him 2 weeks to build up courage to tell you
but Do NOT tell him you love him back unless you really Do love him
Mind games are immature and hurt
Best of luck to you sweetie!!
Love is AWESOME !
2007-03-22 06:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy cow that is way to soon and he is inmature you should know by now that guys will say this just to get into your pants
especially and that short amount of time.
God Bless and maybe the age difference is weirding him out?
2007-03-22 06:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHH yeah...he doesnt even know you..
i dont think age matters so long as he's an adult..
BUT u dont know someone sometimes after years...let alone 2 weeks...hahaha....come on
u know the answer anyway...why ask?
2007-03-22 06:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by lisa baby... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i once told a boyfriend i loved him after a few days and we dated for over a year and then got married for almost a year and expecting our first child. couldnt be happier. I dont think its too fast.
2007-03-22 06:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not going to work..
You are too much older than him...
If you were a man 25 yrs. older than a woman
it would probably be OK....
2007-03-22 06:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's too soon. He feels he loves you and has told you so....
It's a great feeling to be in love and have that someone special love you back just as much....enjoy every moment of it.
2007-03-22 06:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
TOO SOON..... HE'S A FREAK.... CLINGY AND NEEDY AND 25 YEARS OLDER.... YEAH, GET RID OF HIM. HELL, I'D MOVE SO HE COULD NEVER FIND YOU AGAIN.
2007-03-22 10:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋