2007-03-22 06:46:09 · 5 answers · asked by sophela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
peaks and valleys, remember that. Marriage is all about communication and trust. If you communicate to him your feelings about this, then you should be able to find out the reason why.
Lots of times, this happens because of added pressure and stress at work, or because of lack of sleep. we fall into routines very easily, and if you don't make the time to make the love, then it just won't happen.
Talk to him, take the initiative, but don't worry too much about it unless you think he's getting it somewhere else.
2007-03-22 07:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I were together, we had lots of little kids so the sex was rare....maybe once or twice a month. I think you guys need to make time for each other more often then that or the romance is going to die...and then the marriage will weaken. The best marriages are the ones where the couples schedule time for each other, making sure that regardless of jobs, kids, etc...they are not letting things get stale. Just start initiating a bit more....at the right times, like when he is not tired, etc... good luck!
2007-03-22 14:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! worry where is he getting sex the rest of the month??? i mean MOST MEN ...not all but most want to have sex a lot of the time and is it your hubby that refuses you or is it u that refuse him? cuz if he is refusing sex from u it could be that either he is depressed or tired or angry or just does not feel attracted to u anymore and/or it could be that he is getting sex from someone else. sad but it could be true. i dont know for sure but it seems to me that this is not normal. most healthy couples make love anywhere from 2 to 5 times a week ...or more...my hubby is alot like that we fight and we fight mainly about sex. he refuses me. he seems angry a lot and rigid and negative and now i even consider coucelling...strange thing is he flirts with other women in front of me and loves porno type of stuff so i know he is sexual type of person..like most men...but...he just does not want to be intimate with me and when ever he is it is like a bunch of eye rolling and sighs like oh gosh i guess i have to have sex w/my wife (me) again) and he finishes fast and then tells me to leave him alone and not touch him at all after he is done...so what i am saying is this what is going on in your marriage? if so and if u have the money or coverage on insurance then go to a sex therapist...hopefully he would want to come along...if he values u and your marriage to make it work then he would go with u but if he does not then he is not putting worth into ur marriage. and this is where i am at with my hubby he wont go but i will and now i am wanting to leave him possible . so just think about it. hope this helps
2007-03-22 14:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, try and see what is going on with him, talk to him first then find out all the details
2007-03-22 14:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you gained weight lately?
2007-03-22 14:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋