my friend has been different lately, we share a locker at school and i went into it and there was a note that said i wouldnt be seeing her anymore
and earlier that day she was talking about committing suicide. she said that if she has to go to Prarie( a place we have here for depressed ppl and stuff like that) that she was gunna lock herself in the bathroom and hang herself, and if i told anyone what she had told me she was gunna kill me
she said that to me and another friend of mine
and we really dont know what to do to help here
i mean srsly im sitting here in CLASS and flippin school crying. but i really dont care cause the other kids cant see me
me and my friend talked to a councelor about her, but i still dont know what i can do. i cant stop crying
she used to over dose alot too
and she stopped taking her meds that she needs
and she stopped drinking water
and she hardly eats anymore
i need a hug
or something
2007-03-22 06:40:39 · 19 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell someone!!
her parents
anyone
and if she does end up going to the praire thing.. warn them of her plan to kill herself while she's there
she thinks its the only way out but its not
tell her family
good luck for you, her and all your other friends
*hugs* xxxxxxx
2007-03-22 07:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl has some serious issues she needs to get resolved. If she does go to Prairie and they are aware of her threats they will have her on suicide watch which means somebody will be watching her 24/7.
If you already told the school counselor then I would hope that the message would be relayed to her parents.
None the less trust that if she goes to Prairie she'll be in good hands.
I can tell what you think by the look on your face,
you think I know nothing and you leave me no trace.
But if there's a smile I know you're not mad,
but if there's a frown there's reason to be sad.
If you tell me what's bothering you and get it off your mind,
you'll find I'm not cruel but actually kind.
I'm not a Psychiatrist a shrink some might say,
it's just that I want you to HAVE A NICE DAY!
That's your hug from me to you!
2007-03-22 13:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rustb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry for the way you feel but you have to understand that girl is a run away train and when she crashes she's going to hurt more than just here self you would be better off with other freinds but hey your stuck with her right? so all you can do is be there but you have emotional distance your self from her i mean look at your self right now it's all like some bad moive
and why does it always rain? simple you do it to your self by caring by alowing her to have that power over you is the reason you feel the way you do now thats why for me caring about people is a dangerous thing and i dont give that power to just anyone, maybe you should think about doing the same
2007-03-22 13:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell someone. Anyone. her parents, a teacher, a doctor, ANYONE. I know she said she was going to kill you, but I guarantee she doesn't mean it. And if she does, get police protection. They'll probably lock her in a hospital until she's better anyway. Trust me on this, you don't want to be in the position of knowing what was happening and not saying anything if she really does try to kill herself.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 13:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really need to tell someone that you trust about this whole situation. just make sure that your friend doesn't know that you told someone what she was going to do. It's the only way you can stop her from committing suicide even if it goes against what she wants. hope it all works out for you.
2007-03-22 13:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by i_blow_kisses 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am so sorry it is best to tell someone especially the parent of the child. i know that she threatened to kill you but she only sees you in school right? she wont be able to kill because of the metal detectors and cameras all over the school. and later on she will thank you for saving her life and shell finally realize that she was truly blessed to have a friend like you who cares about her. may God bless you and your friends.
2007-03-22 13:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell some one she wont kill u shes subconceincely (srry for the bad spelling) asking u for help my friend did almost the smae thing and he thanked me for it after
2007-03-22 13:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by katashimon13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I usually look at things cynical but I really feal for you. I think You really need to intervene in your friends life. Get an adult to help talk to her. Tell her parents, tell someone..
2007-03-22 13:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Frosty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL SOMEONE! I had a similar problem in high school I told a school counselor and now 15 years later my friend still thanks me for doing so. It's better to have her mad a t you for a while than dead.
2007-03-22 14:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by teresacmt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
damm girl im sorry i did something liek that but for really she is looking for help u need to tell some one an adult or mom and have her helped out i did the same **** its scary as helll
2007-03-22 13:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋